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How do you tell someone that there husband is cheating on them with your neighbor.?

I know this girl she just had a set of twins and she is already a mother to two other kids. I found out that her husband is cheating on her with this girl that lives right up the road away from me. The girl is a good friend of mine and she is just as sweet as she want's to be, but how can i let her know that her husband is cheating on her or do i sit and do nothing. The husband even has this other woman in his home when his wife and the kids are at church or whatever. What do a friend do in this situation. HELP PLEASE!

Update:

I know for sure that her husband is cheating i have seen him and my neighbor together, they were drunk on night and had sex in his truck. I saw everything off a distance i could not believe those bastards.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well just think about this would you want someone to tell you if your husband is cheating on you.? if it was me i would want to know help your friend out and tell her the truth because what if it comes out and she finds out that you knew all about it and never told her she will not like you for keeping this from her

  • 1 decade ago

    first ask ur friend...what were u doing this sunday...if she told u i was n the church...then tell her what about ur husband ? dont u take him with u?? if she said something that doesn't show she knows that he was with that girl...then u should make sure that he is cheating on her...and then u may tell her husband that u know everything and u have an evidence so he may stay away from that girl...or u can tell ur friend....u know which one to choose.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your in a bad situation, if I did't know either of them, I wouldn't say anything, but the lady would be better off to be rid of the jerk. The lady with 4 kids, will have a hard time makeing it on her own.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well for starters this problem is none of your buisness if it is a problem. So you should not say anything. Your are probably an old woman and the only thing you have to do is gossip with other people about other people. How do you know this man and other women are not just friends?? and that you are falsely accusing them. The answer is simple mind your own buisness and worry about yourself and your own life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Gather good, hard evidence and be 'an angel'. Go around to the victim and say, 'Chica, i don't mean to destroy your marriage but that husband of yours is playing with another Chica down the road. Now, take that tissue off your hand and roll up your sleeves. He ain't worth it. Im just doin you a favor. Your welcome.' Haha, done!

  • 1 decade ago

    GURRRLLLL, please don't you say a word. Everthing that is going down is her business. Just be there for her if she trys to talk to you but TRUST me ...leave that alone.My BEST friend has a new husband a 2 new babies as well, a new home and a new car...who do you think she would chose if i told her that he IS cheating AND trying to get with me???? That is someones life,...someones world you are messing with. leave it alone.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Mine your own business and keep your nose out of others doings.

    If you are that neighbor then tell her so you two can have a real hair pulling fight.

    Even better ask her to have threesome.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, i think you should tell her...but you should get proof first....lol...you should take pics and show her them, that way she will believe you, cause once she talks to her husband about it, he will make you look like the bad guy.

  • N L
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    1 decade ago

    Make really sure that your facts are straight, then tell her, presenting any evidence you might have. She deserves to know.

  • 1 decade ago

    don't you ever involve in such a thing...you ll lose all party's.. and ll be the reason for all

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