who to choose?

Go with your heart. If you truly love your boyfriend, you should be with him. You're only going to do more damage to your children if you keep going back and forth!

Coming from experience, you have already made a mistake! You now have the chance to fix it but...if that isn't what you truly want than don't hurt everyone all over again! If you are going to go back than do it for the right reasons and commit to it. You can't do it just for your kids because than what happens when they are gone? If you really want this you have to work at it but if this isn't what you really want than let it go for good! Every time you go back you get hubby and all three kids excited that it will work then you crush them all over again. Trust me, I know more than you think about how much your hubby loves you but don' t hurt him all over again, make up your mind and stick with it. He can't take it too many more times.

you know.. the thing is.. countries with devorce ruins everything.. cause.. here in my country.. the philippines.. we dont have devorce.. so no matter what.. we stick together.. you chose to get married with this guy.. you might aswell stick with him.. you have three children.. and he loves you too.. dont destroy 4 lives.. im not saying your selfish.. but think about it.. three children will loose their mom and dad.. your hubby will loose his wife.. and you'll enjoy your dating life again.. but till when? when you realize you dont want to be with the new guy again? it happened with your hubby.. it can happen again..