your opinion?

I am a teenager.

1. Yes, if it is for the right reasons. I, for one, like how heels look because I don't want to wear tennis shoes and I don't like flats. If she only wants heels to seem more mature then she isn't mature enough to wear them.

2. yes, but again, for the right reasons.

3. Yes, as long as she doesn't start bringing a new guy every few days: that's a sign that she isn't ready to date

4. I don't think so, it opens the door to so much other crap! I think that a strict no alcohol policy is best otherwise there will be grey areas. I am not 21 yet and have never had a sip of alcohol and have never wanter to, despite it standing on my kitchen counter.

5. Definitely, but not a new place for the first time.

6. Yes, but it should be close by.

7. To an extent. I think that more revealing clothes can give a girl confidence because she thinks that she looks good. At the same time it should never get out of hand and you should set boundaries: for example, skirts should be long enough that you can drop a pencil and easily pick it up without flashing the world.

8. Not in a new area, but if it's the neighborhood 'downtown' area then sure.

9. yes

10. I wouldn't know, the only 'parties' I went to were sleep overs where we watched the 6 hour BBC version of Pride and Prejudice and the like.

I think all of the above is appropriate...

Im 15, but ive been doing all except 3,and 6 since i was 13

And those are cuz it was basically impossible w/o my boy being able to drive, and no one who hire me at 13!

So yeah, i think ur definatly intitled to ALL OF THE ABOVE

As long as u dont abuse the fact that they're allowing u those things :))

1. YES DUH!!!!!! Ive been wearing heels since i was 6!

2. Yes, but only if it won't show

3. yes, but only if lyk they get to interrogate the guy (im assuming that the date would be a guy, since youre obviously a girl)

4. NO

5. yes, of course, but only with a cell phone so they can call you

6. Yes, it's legal in most places

7. Define more revealing. But parents get veto power but u get a chance to make your point

8. maybe

9 maybe

10 only with adult supervision (which there is)

heels...yes

thong....i did at 15 every day but idk if i would let my daugther

date...groups only...i had a bf at 15 i know what happends

drink...a sip of their parents on yes new years not their own glass

mall....yes as long as i knew who they were with and they could be trusted

job...if they can handel it w/ school yes

clothes...depends on what they asked to wear

go to the city...yes as long as i knew who they were with and they could be trusted and checked in when told

concerts...not alone

parties...group stuff w/ parents there i drop them off i see parent atleast wave out the door i pick them up i call they better be there and talk to me

i do all of these things except 6 and i am 14

im thirteen and i do all that stuff exept 1 2 and 7 so go for it