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I don't know if im gay or not im turned on by guys but attracted to girls to so if you could give some advice or know of any tests please help.
ClueLess that is kind of my case and the first answerer thanks but not really helpful
ClueLess that is kind of my case and the first answerer thanks but not really helpful
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
you don't have to put a label on yourself to discover where your feelings will take you...
You already know your turned on by guys..there are no tests other then to try something with a guy and see if you like it..see if there is NE thing to the feelings or if you are just curious about men...
try some gay chat sites....
find out where your feelings take you then once you feel comfortable then try to fit yourself into a label
hope it helps..
Peace and Love
- 1 decade ago
By definition if you've been with a girl more than once and were able to achieve orgasm then you are bi, Have you ever achieved orgasm with a guy? Just because you find some males attractive don't make you gay, or even bi for that matter. I'm gay but find many girls sexy, and erotic, but that don't make me bi. So here's the test. If you get turned on by the following with both sexes then you are bi, otherwise you are hetero or gay
1. Kissing
2. Hand holding
3. cuddling
4. hugging naked
5. oral sex
6. anal and/or vaginal sex
- 1 decade ago
It sounds like you are bisexual. You are at times attracted to women but other times you are also and/or attracted to men. You have never dated a guy to really know for sure which gender you prefer the most, if there is one you like better.
This is a bisexual question for the ages. How does one become bisexual? What happens next? How do I know? Honestly, you're going to have to learn about yourself through knowledge and experience. Pay attention to whether or not you are always attracted to a woman. Think of it even when you are in your room or the shower and then try the same thing with a guy. If you find you prefer one more than the other, then you'll know that in certain moods, you prefer this gender rather than the other.
But honestly, since you have already realized that you think of guys in a sexual way, even if it's just for a moment, you are bisexual and it is up to you, with help from your closest friends to help you find out more about how to handle it and etc.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
same thing here and i have the same question!! i can date a girl but i dont really want to have sex but with guys i get horny!! is that ur case?
- 1 decade ago
Tests?
You either think about them sexually or you don't. Watch gay porn and see how it makes you feel.
- Jeff BLv 51 decade ago
I'd date men and women, and follow your heart. At the very least, you sound bisexual to me. I'm queer, BTW.
- 1 decade ago
Maybe you are bisexual hon.
That sounds like a good possibility. :)
Follow your heart and be happy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're open in your sexuality, there's nothing wrong with that at all.