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Best Friend? So nice / then so mean!?

Allright! My best friend, lets call her pansy. So pansy is awesome, we hang out a lot, ride the bus together, on and on. But then there is another girl, we shall call her Mel. When Pansy is with mel she acts different and she is rude. She leaves me behind. I dont tag along but hmm here is an example. Pansy invited me over for a sleepover. I go packed and everything and we start having dun whn Mel comes over and says hey pansy im having a sleepover, wanna come, oh wait look who's here. I am to nice! I left and said go ahead b/c we had a sleepover the weekend before. Mel is only here every other weekend. Whould I stay friends with Pansy? Or is she using me when she is bored? >=-(

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  • 1 decade ago
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    hello.,Pansy is the name of your friend right.,?

    Well.,you hang out alot,,right.,next time if you see her again.,

    ask her if she can talk with you privatley and said to her frankly.,

    ask her if she is just using you or she loves to go out with you alot but sometimes she is just bored.,maybe.,.,ok

    here is my advice to you.,

    if she's always doing that kind of attitude to you choose another friend.,a friend that accpets you for who you are and a friend that is loyal and true.,!!

    (hope you like my advice)

    Source(s): myself
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    does not sound like a good friend.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She's not a true friend. Just wants to fit in with others.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is not a good friend. Dump her

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, i had that problem too. if she doesnt stop using you, you should just tell her that shes not good enough to be your friend and shes not being a good friend and that she should just go to "Mel" . just forget her and find a new best friend bekuz shes not worth your time and stuff and shes just using you anyways .

  • 1 decade ago

    Not a nice person. I'd get out of the middle and find another set of friends. You deserve to be treated better than that. I don't care how nice she tries to be to you when Mel is not around. Don't go back.

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