what do you do when................?

How about writing him a letter??

I am sorry but I find it hard to understand why a 25 year old man wants to be friends with a 14 year old girl, unless it is for all the wrong reasons...

Pedophiles are men who are much older than the girls they want...

If I were you I would tell my mom about the friendship and ask her what you should do...

Or have your mom write a letter to him...

Or you write a letter and send it to him...

In your letter be sure you give your phone number and email address so he can't say he couldn't contact you...

I do think you need to find girls or even boys your age to be school friends with...

A 25 year old is TOO old for you at this time in your life, like it or not...

It is much too dangerous to be flirting with danger like this...

So much bad can happen to you..

I promise you that you will find more friends as you grow up and get older...

You will meet men and women you can be friends with as you continue in your schooling and possible college and work force...

You never lose all your friends just because it seems hopeless now..

Pick out other gals in school and see which ones look like they need a friend...

Be a new friend to other girls in your school...

Please do not be upset or lose time thinking about this loss...

Your friend was no real friend or he wouldn't have been around you in the first place at his and your ages...

It is too unsafe of a relationship...

You are too young to be in this type of situation...

Ok. Well this is that situation when you need to give the guy sometime because clearly he doesn't want you to contact him, no offense. Once some time goes by, you have to approach him in a place where he can't get away from you and he cannot try to fight you off or anything. If you don't feel like waiting for time to go by, then you should talk to guidance (if you are in school) or another person close to him and set up a meeting with him and this person.

It is really a difficult situation and such things happens in friendship. There seems to be some communication gap but your friend is not in a mood to listen. Try to find the exact reason for him to blame you it may / need not be a direct reason, there can be something else.

I feel you have to wait for the proper time. The truth will prevail and may be it takes some time to surface.

You should not show that you are in hurry as this will make your friend more uncomfortable and the reaction more - ive.

If possible make your point clear to somebody who is close to him so that your message can reach him correctly.

It seems a little odd that your best friend is 25 and you are 14. Is he like a big brother or is there something sinister in this relationship. It just doesn't sound like a healthy friendship. You need to have more friends your own age. Growing up too fast and missing out on your youth will haunt you later in life. If he is more like a big brother than you have to give him time to get over whatever the problem is. Pull back and give him the time and space he needs to mull the situation over and make his decision as to how he feels and where he wants you in his life, if he does or not. You truly need to find friends closer to your own age. I'm not trying to be mean, just honest.

While you are giving him however much time it takes him to decide whether or not he wants to be his friend try to make some new ones that are closer to your age.

Love your youth and live it to the fullest. It may not seem like fun right now but if you don't enjoy it now you will regret it later. Trust one who knows.

Good luck!!!

I think you need to write to him and since you say you know where he lives, take your letter to his house and tape it to his door and in your letter ask him why he is not your friend any more.

Maybe he can answer you in a letter if he can't look at you face to face.

I agree with all the others that he is too old for you at this time in your life.

However, if ruling him out as a friend is not what you want to do, then at least write to him, ask him what you have done wrong and why he believes it, and ask him to write back and he can tape a letter to your door.

Or at least give him your email address if he is afraid to come to your house.

Can he write an email to you?

Do you know his email address?

Do you have a friend that can call him and ask him for you?

Maybe one of his friends can ask him and then tell you so you don't have to face each other.

If he believes you did something wrong, you need to find out what it was and why he thinks you did it.

That is my best advice I can give to you since you are so young and I know you are hurting.

I promise you will get over this hurt even if it feels like you wont.

I had many friends and loves in my life and each one you lose hurts, but you eventually get over it in time, and as you look back, you wonder what took you so long.

You acquire new friends that take the place of the old ones and you go on with your life.

I hope you can understand all I have told you.

I wish I had someone help me when I was 14.

I could have earned so much from older folks trying to help me.

My psychiatrist lady friend once asked me, how long was I going to let my pain hurt me?

She said no one else is letting the pain hurt them.

She said no one is losing sleep over me.

She said I was the one hurting myself.

I was the one wondering and crying and losing my happiness.

No one else was sitting at their house wondering how I was.

So you have to be strong and learn what went wrong and get over the pain with yourself.

Put yourself first and help yourself to grow and learn and be happy again.

What precipitated the disagreement? If it was something serious, then it may be a long time before he`s willing to get back together again. Like all the others above me here I am wondering about the older person. Does he have any other friends? I would ask your parents to intercede if they will. Good luck.

#1) I don't believe in ex-friends maybe this is just how he wants to be and you have to find out the hard way-

#2) I think that if he's 25 and your 14 there's something differently wrong with this picture if you can't get friends your own age

Things just happen in life but because I don't know more about you than what you have stated I would advice you to talk to a counselor you trust that may be able to figure what is going on. Good luck and take care of yourself.

you call that a best friend!!!find new ones.