I think my name is only on the title of the house My husband is then totaly responsible for the house morgage

There are a lot of state programs out there that can help you, you just have to be willing to go out there and do the leg work. Your doing the right thing for yourself by seeing a therapist. and remember just because your on the meds now doesn't mean you'll have to stay on them...you just need them to help you through this rough patch...good luck.

A lawyer will work with you and petition the Court for attorney's fees from your husband since you have no source of income. If your house is in joint tenancy your mortgage was probably signed by both of you. But, you can't get blood out of a turnip so he'll be liable to pay the mortgage or you'll have to sell the house. You need a lawyer. Good luck.

I think you might need to build up your self esteen and physical strength to be able to handle all that could lay ahead for you. Are you sure that your life will be better without your husband? Be sure to consider all the pro's and con's before you take that final step. I feel you could benefit from some up lifting books...Dr. Wayne Dyer has written some fantastic books...find them in the self-help section of the local library. Some are even available on CD and VHS or DVD. His work has helped me become a stronger person. You don't want to become too socially isolated ( not working and all). Also helpful, 'AS A MAN THINKETH' by James Allen, and "NOTES TO MYSELF' by Hugh Prather. Please try them, I don't think you'll regret it. God bless. Hang in there. If it weren't for the 'bad times', how would we recognise the 'good times'. Happiness does not depend on what happens to us, or even on how much we have..it depends on how you react to these things. Happiness is a state of mind, not a destination. If you can't change some thing, then change the way you think about it.When you change the way you think, the things you think about change. See yourself and your life the way you want it to be. Imagine every little detail. There is magic in possitive thinking. If you dwell only on the negative and the missing, then that is what you will attract into your life..more of the same negative and just more things missing from your life. I'm not saying that it's easy, only that it is, or should be, our goal.

Listen, be strong I am so sorry about marriage. Get a lawyer who will work with you and keep in mind that you need to keep your head up because there is more to come. Think that this will be over and you will go on with you life. This is just a bumpy road and your life will get better. Just buckle up and face the situation. It is tough but you can control your mind and not let your feelings control you. Keep going to your therapist. God bless you!

If your name is on the title, deed, act of sale (whatever it is called in your state) then he could not legally mortgage it without your signature.

Otherwise I could get a mortgage on your house.

You are both responsible for the mortgage.

When you buy groceries get some extra cash and stash it.

Yes, you do have to see an atty. If you get a legal separation and only your husband has an atty - guess who will win . . . . . .

Any criminal expert or call company can do a deed of present to the two one in all you as tenants via each and everything with a proper of survivorship. under $a hundred and despite county recording fees are. Edit; a Q/c deed isn't what you prefer right here. A Q/c Deed relinquishes any activity you have gotten in a assets and kills your guarantee covenants on the deed. canines is a thank you to pass.

If your name is only on the title of the house, you are responsibility for your on mortgage, when my sister got divorce the judge told her that she was responsibility at her own mortgage ,( her house was on her name only as will ) . But you need to keep away from abuse situation, take him out of your house get a court order to keep him away, Get your own job that will help you with your health problem, that will keep you busy and you won't think about your health problem alot and you will feel good about your self. Good luck and God bless you.

You don't work, have anxiety,are not strong enough or have enough money to separate yet this is HIS problem?

Did it ever occur to you that he is in a constant rage because of YOU?

No wonder he must control everything he is dealing with a drugged up anxiety ridden child.

The only advice I can offer is to get of the meds, get some backbone and take charge of your life. The quicker you quit blaming him for you problems and start to rectify your own life you will be doomed to this malaise.

If their ever was a time to 'man up', this is it! I know that you dont feel like it, but If you dont step up your game, he will be the one coming our of the divorce smelling like a rose, & you will be the one who loses, & you could lose alot! I like you went thru a divorce, & like you was suffering from depression & didnt really have any control of the marital assets, so I let my hubby take charge, & I didnt really care, when it was all over & I started to emerge from my sick state of mind, I learned that he took me to the cleaners & everything that I was legally entitled to was gone, he took advantage of me & he was the one who came our of the divorce a winner, & I was the loser! So you gotta dig down deep & find a way of not losing all your rights & assets, & believe me, you have more to gain then not.

Find a lawyer who will work pro bono (free) or can wait until the settlement comes through. You need to get out of that relationship. Ask your therapist for referrals.