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It seems like everyone hates me.?
It seems like everyone hates me. In school and my family. I always try to talk and be nice to them but it seems they think im not important. Whenever my family asks me to do something right away, I do it quickly and they don't even say one simple thank you. They just look at me and yell go away. Even in school..What should I do?
31 Answers
- toobingaddictLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Sounds like your self esteem is low. Make an appointment with your school councillor + talk to him/her. Maybe get a referal for a doctor who specializes in this. Someone you could talk to + they in turn could help you out. Teenagers go thru an emotional turmoil in some times of their life, its frightening, makes you feel insecure, and a bit paranoid. I went thru this too. I saw lots of psychologists + it helped me go thru it. There is nothing wrong with you, you are just going thru a bumpy emotional time in your life.
For the record - a parent never stops loving their child. Ask them if you aren't sure.
Source(s): check this site out + see if you think you have any of the symptoms. Depression can really play games with your head. It affects your attitude + you can't even see how you changed. Just aim for peace in your heart + you will be happier + all these things won't be such a big issue with you anymore, you'll see. : ) signs of a depressed teen. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_teen.ht... - 5 years ago
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
You know...people don't care about what you are doing right they will just say something if you do it the wrong way...
that's why some children are so uncontrollable they think that the only way to have attention is to do wrong things because parents don't matter if it's right.
But be sure they don't hate you. Not your family. Our family always love us...instead if they don't show it.Talk about it to them. Just say it. They don't ignore you they are not just able do give you what you are asking for...
maybe some kind of affection and attention you know ...not everybody is able to give that to their child. It's not always easy for some people it's harder than you think.
But watch closely the difference with you and the other people. If they seems like more acceptable with the other it's normal. We are not always feeling good with people we love.
Always easier to show friendship than love.
And for people at school, don't worry. You don't have to get a headache for them. People at school are always like that. It changes when you grow up.
don't worry I'm sure you're somebody very fine ;)
sorry for my English I'm francophone.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Hi, I went through a time when I felt like everyone hated me. But then I realized something, why am I trying to please everybody anyway? Don't get me wrong, it is good to do nice things for people but if they act mean and rude then you can love them from afar. Those people who yell at you are probably upset with themselves and are insecure so they take it out on you. Don't worry about it though because as long as you are a good person and do what is right you will always come out on top. Best wishes.
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- 1 decade ago
Don't stop being friendly just because it's not shown back. You are never not being watched, someone is seeing this good behavior and after awhile, they'll see that is someone they want to be around. Just keep up the good work and know you are doing it because that is how a good person is supposed to be, not for the thanks, but for their own peace of mind. Do onto others as you would have them do onto you..eventually it will pay off. One last thing, no one should yell at you, next time they do, just ask them nicely to please not yell that it upsets you. At my work I've found when I tell folks that, they often apologize and say they didn't realize they were yelling.
- 1 decade ago
Don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself , even a parent). The best way to get even with people like this is to be successful and happy. I was the pretty and smart one in my family and they resented me. And I was treated badly also. I rose above them and made a good life for myself. I have a lot they don't have, and get to do things they will never imagine of getting to do. Keep on being nice and working hard at school. keep your head up and a smile on your face all the time.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Hmm same thing happens to me at home the part (Whenever my family asks me to do something right away) I dont seem to know what im doing wrong at least school isnt that bad. Im sorry that I cant find the answer to it seems im searching for it my self hopeful your family will change.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
School kids are mean and sometimes parents aren't there for you either. Maybe you should look into a Big Sister, or Big Brother program, you will find a friend that maybe older than you but will encourage and support you, and they will also be able to help you with your high school problems and your parents. Its a free service.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
From my point of view I don't think everyone does unless you've been a brat to everyone "no offense". But do you say thank you to everyone? like your mom when she buys you a drink from quick trip or a toy? And the people at school It might just be that your popular and their jealous or you've picked on them in the past and don't remember it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
they have to have a reason for treating you that way. you should also do the things they tell you to do because you want to obey them, not for them to thank you. It also depends if they have always treated you this way. do you have siblings? if so do they treat your siblings the same way they treat you? I don't know why people wouldn't like you at school...you seem like a nice girl! I hope that this helps and that everything works out for you!
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