Is there potential to turn this into a relationship?

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Dan and I have been good friends since the beginning of the school year (late August). We hang out in the same group, live 8 doors down from each other, and are really good friends. 
We both like each other as more than friends. We’ve hooked up a couple times (just making out). He’s asked me to keep our kissing from all of our friends "for now" though. He told me back in November (after the first time) that with friends, he will hook up with them a few times to “get to know them more” and then if he likes her, he’ll ask them out. We talk all the time, and he begs me to come to his performances, and has asked me to go to out to dinner with him, his roommate, and his roommate's friend (but it didn't work out...) We’ve hooked up three times. He hasn't hooked up with any other girls while we have been hooking up. Over break, we didn't see eachother for a month, but we go back on Sun. 
We talked yesterday for the first time in 3 weeks, and he said he misses me and thinks about me often.

Nancy C · Accepted Answer

The fact he missed you is a good sign. The time you were apart helped him realize that you are important to him. There is a good chance you'll have a real relationship with him soon :) Also, the fact he is not rushing you into something shows that he is not an opportunist like many other guys.

cryptotich · Answer

*quote*We both like each other as more than friends. We’ve hooked up a couple times (just making out). He’s asked me to keep our kissing from all of our friends "for now" though. He told me back in November (after the first time) that with friends, he will hook up with them a few times to “get to know them more” and then if he likes her, he’ll ask them out.*quote*

I would not trust this.  Why does he want to keep it from all of your friends?  Can you think of a "Good Reason", I cant.  I would say look elsewhere.

sarah_smiles · Answer

Sounds like he likes you but likes playing the field...hope you can deal with him "hooking up" as you say with others while he is with you...because that sounds like that is his nature...him wanting to keep it secret though is a bit disturbing...what is he trying to hide?

Personally I do not "hook up" until I already know I like a person and want to be committed to him...but maybe I am old fashion :)

Whammy · Answer

The best way to know is to flat out ask him. Let him know that you really like/care for him and you are just curious where the 2 of you stand.  And ask him flat out if the 'relationship' you have is going anywhere or if he wants it to go anywhere.

We on Y! Answers can't tell you how he feels about the situation

Alexa B. · Answer

dont jump into  it because forbid it dosnt work out for some reason u guys live so close to each other it will b very akward everytime u see each other
but see how he feels about you have a deep conversation
and if u feel hes sincere go ahead!
but b careful because musicians can be quite charming

kryssyclass2006 · Answer

yes u have a chance go for it 
I would so go for it and kissing is not hooking up sorry but it is not but yes he likes u

Mina M · Answer

How old are you both? If he wants you there is no waiting period or secrets. PLEASE read " He's just no that into you" by Greg Behrendt . I am not saying he isn't into you buttttttttt it is a must have for every women to read. Good Luck.

rob · Answer

sounds like something could happen there.  put some pressure on him to make a decision.

T M · Answer

explain again why he "hooks up" with you and vice versa.

Mint Car · Answer

Yeah, it sounds like it could.

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