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fear of commitment?

well i asked her if she thought of me as a boyfriend and she told me no and i told her i thought she was.she said 'i'm not seeing anyone else isnt that the basic concept' and that calling me bf was too much pressure and that she wanted to take it slow so she didnt hate me in a month.i told her i understood and wasnt gonna push her into a commitment.but then when i talked to her later she seemed down and said she didnt want to talk about why she was feeling that way said she had alot on her mind and was

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kinda dodging around the question and saying she was ok. i just want to know if anyone thinks this will be cool if i take it slow like she said and not worry about the labels. i really like her and enjoy being with her and i feel it would be worth it to wait and take a few steps back.can i change her mind or can only time do that?she has already been with me for 2 months and i dont think she would've stuck around that long if she didnt want to be with me.not having sex is beginning to bother me too

Update 2:

kinda dodging around the question and saying she was ok. i just want to know if anyone thinks this will be cool if i take it slow like she said and not worry about the labels. i really like her and enjoy being with her and i feel it would be worth it to wait and take a few steps back.can i change her mind or can only time do that?she has already been with me for 2 months and i dont think she would've stuck around that long if she didnt want to be with me.not having sex is beginning to bother me too

Update 3:

kinda dodging around the question and saying she was ok. i just want to know if anyone thinks this will be cool if i take it slow like she said and not worry about the labels. i really like her and enjoy being with her and i feel it would be worth it to wait and take a few steps back.can i change her mind or can only time do that?she has already been with me for 2 months and i dont think she would've stuck around that long if she didnt want to be with me.not having sex is beginning to bother me too

Update 4:

kinda dodging around the question and saying she was ok. i just want to know if anyone thinks this will be cool if i take it slow like she said and not worry about the labels. i really like her and enjoy being with her and i feel it would be worth it to wait and take a few steps back.can i change her mind or can only time do that?she has already been with me for 2 months and i dont think she would've stuck around that long if she didnt want to be with me.not having sex is beginning to bother me too

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  • 1 decade ago
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    the girl sounds like me. haha. =P yeah, u need to finish the story! =)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you didnt finish!!

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