A question for any nice single guys in their thirties...?

Lisa,they aren't a dying breed at all.Most of the guys in their thirties are already married,engaged or divorced to a worst extent........most of them have been to numerous relationships.

A guy at 30+ has seen it all!,at 34 i have been there,done it,seen it,paid for it,....i have the receipts to show,and that explains to why i will wait on until one comes my way.

Guys at 30+ are pre-occupied with establishing themshelves in their numerous careers.

when searching for them,won't be easy for you,the dregs that aren't pushing on with their careers will be the ones you will most definately land on!.

wish you luck,

and take your time

This is an age old Q?.

The Q? does have merit so are the answers do have merit at least some of them.

You need to read a few books on this subject and other subjects.

Here is the list.

Power of positive thinking.

How to make friends and Influence people.

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But most of all, you need to develop some type of support system it can come from neighborhood, other friends or family, kind of project yourself as approachable material without being cheap or desperate about it (please do not feel that way, I know you are not desperate, do not think that other will think it that way). Look like you do have that also but ---.

Re invent yourself join adult education courses, not senior type.

Internet is a good place but you need to be care full.

This is what happened: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/483318927...

Seriously, a lot of guys, by thirty are in long-term relationships or married.

Nice guys aren't necessarily a dying breed but a changing one. Always trying to figure out what works. It's got to be hard to find a 'nice' guy that makes to thirty and is still nice. He spent his late teens and twenties getting rejected by girls and women that wanted the bad boy or the mysterious guy.

Nice guys are generally found at work or hanging out with their friends at Friday's or Chili's. Grocery stores. Bookstores. Or with women who got there first.

If the places you go don't attract men you like. Try going to new places.

To be honest, I have noticed the same about women too. I tend to stay home. Maybe all the others do too, so they can drink and smoke without the thought police catching them. It is a problem. Given the high rate of divorce, you would expect to run into more than you do. Maybe everyone gets so scarred, they give up and don't want to know. I must say, the thought is tempting.

Not a single guy anymore, but consider these:

There are often singles groups in/near towns/cities for adults that are interested in meeting people both socially and for potential romantic encounters. Look for one in your area.

Look for local clubs for hobbies you enjoy. Anyone you meet there will share your interests, and there are bound to be single guys there.

It does get harder to meet quality people as you get older, because many of them have been taken off the market. But, it can be done. Just be open to new things!

We are about,I have never married or likely to because most women are to fussy.I am disabled with plenty of money and have given up looking.You may see people like me shopping and pass by who knows.Don't judge people by looks,you can be very wrong.I have some female Devotees,Admirers but I well be always uncle ------- to some friends child.

I'm nice and sweet, I'm 34 and have never tried alcohol drugs or even cigarettes. I go to work, come home, play video games or go on the internet, go to bed and do it again the next day. I only go out of the house when I have to. I guess I'm not the most exciting guy in the world, at least not to the immoral party girls which women seem to be today.

But a guy like me will never hit you, talk mean to you, cheat on you, will tell you you're smart and pretty and interesting, and love you so much that he will start to adopt your opinions because you seem so cool you must know the best way to be.

I'm glad to see there are SOME women in the world who want to meet a guy like me, a nice guy. The best way to meet a guy like me is to observe the guys you work with (because like I said I only go out of the house when I have to) because work is probably one of the only places you can meet them. Observe them, if they seem shy and quiet and keep to themselves, chances are they're a guy like me.

And you'll get all the kisses and cuddles and compliments you could ever want. Good luck.

The golf course or driving range! Electronics and Hardware stores are popular too.

I'm mostly at home because my mates are married!

I need to go out on some dates.

I have no idea where you will find them most at home with their families ( sad but true) Forget the pub scene the guys you will find there won't be worth catching...............Try the gym, or night class's.