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pregnancy issues?

how do you keep your spouse interested in you while you are pregnant? I try really hard to have sex when ever he wants...It doesn't seem like he finds me as attractive or something. It really hurts, and I would hate to think that he is going somewhere else to get satisfied....a few things have led me to think that .... but it could just be pregnant worries.....please help me to understand...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I don't know if this is the case but I'm pregnant and my husband started to get the same way around 33 weeks. So i sat him down and he told me that he was scared that he might hurt the baby or me. And since it hurt me to have sex he said that he would rather wait then hurt me. As for him finding you unatractive i dought that is true. i felt that way because i felt unatractive to me. I would say that you just have to sit him down and talk to him before jumping to any conculsions.

    Source(s): Pregnant and felt the same way
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to talk to your husband. Chances are, he doesn't know you are feeling this way. A lot of women become very self-conscious about their expanding bodies. Most men find it a turn on because you are carrying their child. He might be thinking that he will hurt you or something, and this makes him uncomfortable. At the end of the day, you will not know until you sit down with him and talk to him. I personally am avoiding sex at the moment (almost 12 weeks pregnant and not in the mood, whatsoever). - Good luck, Hun

  • 1 decade ago

    hmm i have no idea.. because my husband is totally 100% more turned on by my changing body. Just make sure he knows that youre totally available and willing to have sex.

    it could also be awkward for him.. alot of men are a little weirded out with having sex with a baby in between em.. And honey, dont let those hormones lead you into thinking hes cheating. im sure hes not :)

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe he just doesnt want to have sex while your pregnant, men often worry about it, having something grow inside you and all that lol, just try to have open communication with him, and let him tell you how he feels, and what he will be comfortable with

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you dont just have to have sex to satisfy him. use your hand or your body. some men like saucy pictures or even post its left around the house with naughty stuff on them.

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