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krazy k asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

Are their questions that even a married couple should not ask?

I have a World Lit, class and for some odd reason, the professor has us writing down some deep questions that we would want to ask a mate if we were married or on the verge of marriage. The catch is, we have to willing to answer the questions ourself. The questions also can not be of th nature of " How many children do you want."

An example would be " In the past 3 months have you done anything that would make me not trust you."

Please if you have any questions that would help out a lot

Update:

I am willing to answer just about anything, I just need some ideas to pick and choose from...Thanks!

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  • TAT
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    If I were to receive an permanent spinal cord inury while we were engaged, would you still marry me?

    Are you willing to make a lifelong committment to love an imperfect person?

    Do you really believe in "Til death do us part?"

    Are there any skeletons in your closet that will later come back to haunt us?

    Will you love me, will you love me forever? Will you need me, will you never leave me..." Meatloaf

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like your teacher wants to you ask very probing questions, to see how a commitment feels. Well, I've always been of the belief that what happened before the marriage is my business, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. For example, answering questions that a private investigator could find is generally a good idea - legally and financially - the facts will surface, especially if your intended's family is very protective and decides to hire someone to give them 'a picture' of you. However, asking something such as, 'How many people have you slept with?' is an entirely different can of worms. Have a healthy and happy new year!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I can't help you because I don't know what questions you are willing to answer.

    For example, I asked my husband while we were dating things, like:

    Have you ever had a three-some?

    You know, because I was willing to answer the same question. But what if I gave you all these questions you yourself are not willing to answer.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Can you ask questions like: What are your views on the Middle East?????? Would you rather see a black man as president or a woman????

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well a question that should never be asked is am I better in bed than your ex. You may not like the answer.

  • 1 decade ago

    Oh that's a good question... Definitley ask that one, thats a good one. But sorry don't have any other that I can think of right now

  • 1 decade ago

    If you decide to leave me, will you pay child support?

    Where do you see us in twenty years time?

    Will you ever keep a secret from me?

    What religion would you prefer our children to be raised?

    Why do you want to get married?

    If I die, will you remarry?

    When it comes to violence, what will you teach our children?

    How would you feel if I gained 10kg?

    Will you trust me with your fears? hopes? worries?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What is ure darkest secret?

    What have u dont that u are most ashamed of?

  • If ya had to make a choice between losing your t's or his c what would it b?

  • 1 decade ago

    who was the best sexual partner you ever had ? that question starts all kinds of insecurities

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