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How do I get out of this?

This girl (my friend) likes me and asked me to our Sadie's dance, but I don't really wanna go with her (or to this particular dance at all), but since I didn't know how to say no, or couldn't since she put all this trouble and went completely out of her way in the way she asked me, huge home-made brownie with frosting that asks me (best brownie I have ever had), so I said I think I'm going out of town after school on that Friday, but if not then I would go. Well she kinda knows I'm not going out of town so now I need help getting out of having to go.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If you got nobody to go with I would just go with her, Just cause your going to the dance with her doesnt mean that it has to be more. You can just go to the dance with her and that would be it and it would be over. You never know it may suprise you, you might end up having a really good time. If you really dont want to go just tell her the truth. It may hurt her but its better than lying cause in the end if she found out that you lied it would look bad on you. If you told the truth like I said it may hurt her but im sure that she would respect you for it even if she dont admit it. Its always better to be honest.

  • 1 decade ago

    First. Is This A Friend That You Have Known For A Long Time.

    The Best Way To Tell Her That You Dont Want To Go Is To Just Tell Her. Thats If You Dont Want To Go At All. Its The Truth. And Its What You Want.

    But If Your Trying To Go With Another Person. Just Tell Her that. Even Tho She might Get mad Or upset.

    If She's A Real Friend. She Will Understand

    Source(s): Peronal Exp
  • 1 decade ago

    I'd say go, but if you truly feel almost gut wrenchgly unable to, tell her the truth and give her a brownie sundae. Girls love those. Make sure the brownie is warm and has lots of whipped cream.

  • 1 decade ago

    1. Tell the truth

    2. Go out of town

    3. Bake her a brownie and tell her the truth

    4. fake an illness.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hm.

    Well, why don't you tell her you'd like a rain check? Tell her you really aren't interested in going to the dance and how about the two of you do something else later, like go to the movies or something... Transferral of activities, you might say.

    Also... don't ever lie to people about things like that (you know, that thing where your were "going out of town"?) because they can bite you back in the worst ways.

  • 1 decade ago

    just go, dances are usually more fun than you anticipate them to be, and she is your friend, so it won't be horrible, jsut if she acts like she really likes you, just try to be niceabout telling her you only think of her as a friend. a friend that makes the world's best brownies

  • Behave
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You should have decided that BEFORE you answered her. Well you said she did all this to prepare for the dance, so why not just be a man and live up to your words. Let this be a future lesson, MEAN WHAT YOU SAY AND DO IT!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should go.How bad could it be after all.At the dance you van act like you don't know that she like you.And you can ask her advise on how to get a certain girls attention cause you like her very much.She will then get the message that you just want to be friends with her.Good luck.

  • MuRdEr
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Just go!!!! She made you a brownie.

  • 1 decade ago

    your stuck just go because your name will get to every girl at that dance and you will be trashed by all of them and not be able to get the girls you want after cause of your rep from ditching one girl

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