what would you guys think about a bedtime partner?

Personally I wouldn't do it. I was in the same situation you're in now. I meet this awesome guy and we've been sleeping together for about 5 years now. I love him and knows he cares for me but the fact that we have a communication problem, he think it won't work out but the sex is great! Honestly, I think we can communicate but its really hard when I'm the only one expressing my feelings to him and he's hard as a rock. To make a long story short, I fell in love with him and he doesn't feel the same way, therefore, I'm heart broken. My best bet is to tell him up front and hopefully he agrees to it. No lies.

You either are in realtionship with someone or you are not. If you want to stay with your partner.......don't cheat. If you feel the urge to be with someone else..........break up with your current partner first...I don't care where you are coming from. I believe it is alway painful and hurtful if two people are together and one of then cheats...............it means you are hurting someone you used to love( or make believe you love him/her). Well if you are living in a stae or country were it is normal to have several partners at once or be married to more then one women.....well......there is nothing else for me to say then.......bbboooohhhh.

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get some counseling Hon why get old and be insecure start fresh marriage and love is not about how good the sex is grow up and be a happier woman with someone that you have it all in a man and relationship

some call this FUBU.

in the long run, do you think it is a healthy relationship? you do fulfill some of the needs, and in some aspect you sweep the concern under the rug - sort off.

Try and work through it to resolve the issues you have with each other.

Have sex with whoever you want, you're not married.

it's neither right nor wrong.

you're a free bird, you can do whatever you please :)