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Boyfriend, should I keep him or drop him?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months. We work together and before I started at this job alot of women liked him. As they still do. Because of this, these women talk about me. Which I really do not care about...however because they are all in noway able to take him from me. It upsets me because they talk about me and he(after I have asked him not to be friendly, like go out the way to speak or acknowledge them) and i just caught him here at work talking with them. Should I feel disrespected and should I break it off? I have asked him before and told him I felt like it was disrespectful to me if he did. Can anyone give me any input on this?

Update:

I trust him. Its not about him cheating its about him allowing women who talk bad about me and disrespect me. If someone was to treat him the same I'd leave those people alone as well. These women I believe think that its funny. Its like a slap in the face to me.

Update 2:

He says that he does not like these people either but just tolerates them. Not only that he had tried to tell me not to listen to them and not be friends with them when I first started...

Update 3:

Also where we work at is a building with 6 floors so I never see him at work.(which is kind of a good thing)

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  • reg
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You have to understand that he has been at this job longer than you have been and this people have become his friends. You are the newbie here, you're the one who's supposed to adjust.

    If you are truly confident that "they are all in noway able to take him from" you, then it doesn't matter if they talk to him all day long. At the end of the day he is with you.

    You already told him that he is dissing you. To say it again would be nagging. If don't want to lose him then don't cling too tight.

    You're with him all day at work, you date after. Be grateful that you're there legitimately to see the women who work with him. Unlike 99.9% of women in relationships who don't work with their boyfriends. Consider yourself ahead of the curve.

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, you don't even want the guy to be friendly to his co-workers. That's never gonna work. I don't see why you would want to date someone you work with anyway. You can't stop him from speaking to other woman at work. Those females are gonna try to break you two up, believe me. Their gonna throw themselves on him for sure.

  • 1 decade ago

    eyyy, why isnt he allowed to talk to these woman? that doesn't mean he's gonna be cheating on you. give him some space otherwise, if you're too curious, it could lead to a break-up. You need to trust him in order to have a good relationship.

    (I'm 15... sounds like you're older... how the hell do i know all of this? its all in my head bahaha okay just ignore this sentence -.-)

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You can only control yourself. If you don't want to talk to them don't. If you have to ask yourself the question if you should dump him then you probably should. And if you want to dump someone for talking to another person that is your choice. Sounds like you may need to be more secure in yourself.

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  • Pam H
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You are being a big baby. You cannot control who he talks to. You already said they couldn't take him from you - so what's your problem?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Who is he going home to?

    He was just talking.

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