Do you have time to help me? i told my ex that i missed her yesterday... did i mess things up between us?

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Well I was at my ex's house yesterday to watch the super bowl. Her brother is one of my best friends and her family sees me as a family member cuz we had dated for 4 years. So her brother after the super bowl passed out cuz he had to go to work early...so my ex and I ended up going to Tim hortins. We were having a pretty good time, laughing and chillin and when we got back to her house she was getting out of my truck and I told her I missed her...she told me she missed me to and then she invited me in but I told her I had to go (I was tired and I’ve been sick for a few days) and that was that. So not even a minute after I left her house she called me and asked me what that I miss u was about and I told her that that's how I felt. Then she asked me y I didn’t come inside and I told her the something as b4 and she said that there was something else. So we just talked for a bit then when I got home I got of the phone and she told me to call her when ever I want to hang out...now the thing is she has a b/f that she got 11 days after we broke up but everyone even her knows that she used him to replace me cuz I cut communication with her for 4 months, 10 days after we broke up. Now she has told me (3 weeks ago) that she thinks about us everyday and even cries over it. Now I know we had attraction built there and did I mess it all up by telling her how I felt? Thanks for ur opinions/comments/time.
PEACE

  P.S.  I know she has a bf but she even said that he doesn’t laugh at the lil stupid cute thing she does and I and her family do... do u know what she's thinking? And the reason y we broke would no longer b there. ( im 20 and she’s 18)

~MoOnY~ · Accepted Answer

the girl's totally interested in u...and i think u dint mess up tellin her tht u missed her.i think she must be hoping tht things bet u guys can get on again.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow,it seem to me you are both on the same page but she does have a boyfriend, andif she is not happy with him, then she should end things with hhim first, before resuming things with you, based on her reply when you told her your feelings then, I would not say you messed up, you were just upfront and honest with how you felt, but do you feel that way because she has someone else,or are these true feelings.  She still has strong feelings for you, but I would wait until things are over between her and him,but keep the communicatiom open.  I also think itis commendable that you did not come inside with her,I am quite sure things would have happened(you know what I am saying).  so good luck, keep the communication open, and finally Take your time, you are both young and have your whole life ahead of you, treasure what you have, in your friendship, do not destroy that, but please take your time, and let her end things first before you proceed any further.

Trisha S · Answer

No you did not mess things up you told her how you felt. that is the best thing that you could do. The next thing to do since you miss her and she told you that she misses you is hang with her more and then maybe one day ask her out again. She what she says. If she misses you as much as she says she does she will get rid of this other guy that she is with now.

I wish you luck in this situation

vicki s · Answer

Well, you didnt say why you broke up, but I dont think you messed things up. Sounds like maybe you both are thinking about getting back together. If you have a chance to work things out, and get back together, you have to be honest with eachother.  Good luck!!

lamanda r · Answer

it sound like u all might get back together cuz me and my ex broken up 4 4months and he called me up on day asking if we could talk i said then we got back together and we been off and on 4 like 5 years now

Your Love Is One In A Million It goes On · Answer

You didn't mess up, it's good that you told her instead of just not showing up and then not telling her anything at all, then it would be different.

Voice2bheard · Answer

Wow you had alot to say well my opinion is that you should just go talk to her and tell her how you feel about whats going on ( well in your mind)

coach.ricky · Answer

You've asked this question several times already and you still don't have an answer ?

kayla m · Answer

No you didn't mess things up at all!
Do you still like her?

jmh · Answer

I feel sorry for her current bf.

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