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I had a big row with a friend ,our relationship is pretty comlicated????

We've known each other since the kindergarten.We've been classmates since the 6th grade(after we passed our exams after 7th grade we went to the same class) .Athough both of us are almost 18 and we our relationship hasn't changed much from the way it used to be in the kindergarten.We often have arguements,we keep talking trash about each other face to face,sometimes we even have light slaps or kicks.But nothing serious,it's like a kids' game and I behave this way towards nobody else and I think that I am pretty mature.Despite all that we have so much in common-we both come from teachers' families,he's the only person in my class who is ambitious and takes studies seriously and my biggest competition in class as well.He plays football and is surrounded by a dozen of empty heads in the football club,just like me in the tennis club.So,you see he's the only person who can understand me in many situations nobody else can.We don't quarrel all the time,when we talk we help and support each

Update:

4 days ago he pured some water on me,I went amd and started beating him.Then we started calling each other names,in front of everybody in my class(including the teacher).We've done this before too,but it didn't use to matter on the next day because all the things we used to say to each other were untrue and we both knew it.But this time I called him a "shriek" and that touched him deeply because he's a bit in secure and is many times afraid to try his hand at sth knew because he's scared of failing.When he heard it he didn't day anything more to me(not directly).Since then we haven't said anything to each other,I spotted him looking at me several times and I've also done so.I know that the whole thing is pretty strange but despite evrything he's a friend and he's decent and I miss our talks.He's not my closest friend but in many ways he understands me and supports me better than the others.What should I do now?He's too insecure to make the first step,so I'd be me.

Sorry for the long q

Update 2:

lol,my details are exiced as I am,very sorry

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It sounds like you two could be heading for a boyfriend girlfriend relationship and eventually marriage. All kidding aside you two do have a history together and seem to be acting like an old married couple the way you fight back and forth. You have a lot in common so if you know you got him good make the first move to mend the fence so to speak. Besides girls always have the upper hand in relationships so it will work out the way you want it too. Talk to him and tell him that you know you both are good friends and joke around alot with each other but that you feel you may have made him feel uncomfortable and want to apologize that he means a lot to you and you don't want to injure his friendship. He is special to you. That will confuse him enough to wonder what you meant and keep him interested. That would be my suggestion but what do I know about relationships.

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats A Friend

  • 1 decade ago

    THATS REALLY GOOD FOR YOU LOL IM JELOUS OF YOU IM 14 MY FREINDS AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOREVER BUT I DOUBT THAT WHEN WERE 18 WERE EVEN GANNA REMEMBER EACH OTHER GOOD LUCK GIRL!

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats a really good friend!!!!

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