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Have you ever...?

lost a friend because you did the right thing?

okay, so here's my story.

my friend was not in class last friday so I asked one of our classmates if they know why. then one of my girls told me she saw her with 2 guys but she was wearing uniform. I described one of the guys and confirmed that it was her bf she was with. she (my friend) has low grades, doesn't study, lazy, frequently absent, doesn't care about her studies, and only cares about his bf who, in fact, is not faithful to her. so, enough of my friend's crap. so, I asked her brother why is she absent, then he said she went to school. so, there, that's where it all started, I narrated the whole story about my friend. then he said, him and their mom talked to my friend there, then she and her boyfriend got mad at me. but I know I did the right thing. or did I? tell me what you think guys.

thank you. :)

Update:

I also thing her boyfriend's a BAD INFLUENCE to her. well, obviously, instead of obliging my friend there to go to school, he did/say nothing but tolerate and stuff. and they already did that a thousand times. my friend cannot focus on her studies anymore. our teachers are always talking about her when she's not in class and even when she's there. we're just concerned but it seems like she doesn't understand what we're trying to say. we're graduating students. and there's a big possibility she's not going to graduate but to repeat again.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You just did you your part as a friend and that's just fine than you did nothing at all when you saw your friend wander afar from the right way. Don't ever be sorry for yourself for doing that. I will do thesame for my friend too and if it would fire me back, the thing is I've done something for her

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    well it's her life and you tried to protect and be there for her as a friend and if she can't see that or respect that than she is not a good friend like you. so I will suggest you stay out of their relationship and see where will it go but in the main time you have to be close to her because she is your friend and you love her and care for her ok. so good luck with is and hope she realize that you are a good friend than she thinks. good luck.

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