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How should I ask this girl out?
I'm a freshman in high school, and there's this girl I really like. I can't stop thinking about her. Thing is, I barely know her and I don't know if she even has any feelings for me. What should I do? Should I get to know her more? Thanks.
21 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
just start talking to her and maybe she likes you and then ask her out
- 1 decade ago
I am 50. A WOMAN AND When I was a Freshman in High School it was probably hard for the guy , but I am going to help you on this one: DO IT !! Do not look back some day and wish you would have, just do it!
If she says no? What is the worst? She says no . Big deal.
I know that sounds easier said than done, but coming from a woman, it makes sense . All she can do to you is say no, that is it....
You find out where you stand and it is over and you do not have to torture yourself anymore or think about it anymore and it is over period..........
Do not take it personal.. Some do some don't? At least you had the guts to ask!!!!
You were man enough to walk up to her and ask, so pat yourself on the back, take a deep breath and do it.
If she says no, you do not lose one damn thing , if she says yes you gain, when she says no, you gain... , ".courage" to ask again to,
"someone else " because you learn it is not a big deal.... : "she" lost out on a good time with "you !!" Therefore it is the other way around right???
She lost out on "your fun"... , .not you lost out on "her fun" . ..see it like that and go for it.. !
.then that will give you ... what you need to ask and it will be "her" loss not "yours"............................ .
Besides it takes a lot to ask anyways, and if she cannot appreciate that then she does lose out on that,
because I do appreciate the fact on how hard is was and is for the guy to do that , and how hard it must be to muster up all that courage and energy,
and all the crap you have to go through to just ask that , one little question to her "majesty".., How dare her?
So, see it that way and you'll be far ahead of the game... ,, .who does she think she is???
anyway???? Give me a break ,,, ...You are lucky you even got asked lady!!!!!!!
But....don;t tell her that.....HA HA HA...........Carol
- 1 decade ago
Yeah, get too know her more. It's always best too because there might be more to her than you think!
Eventually.. if you guys grow to like each other (AND you know it) then it's time to ask her out! - If not, slowly give her hints..
But there was this sweet way my ex. had asked me out..
We were walking in the middle of town, and with 2 friends.. he poped off with my other friend and my friend and i were lagging behind.. Suddenly i recieved this SMS and i stopped to read it.. I was shocked and it was like this little love letter by him crammed in a sms.. then at the end of it, it said 'I will always be here for you. Just like i am now, turn around'
then i turned around.. and there he was, standing right behind me with a bunch of roses and he goes 'Will you go out with me?'
It was so sweet..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Be patient my man! The last thing you want to do is to seem thirsty. Just to her about everything and anything b4 ever asking her out, this way you can get a feel on if she's feeling you or not, thus saving face!
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- 1 decade ago
The same thing is happenin wit me by the way i'm a girl!This guy likes me but he's soo shy and he wants to talk to me but doesn't kno how.Talk to her trust me shes just waitin 4 u. But don't wait too long or she may think ur just friends.If u don't u might regret it!!!!!Ask her and tell me how it goes.
- ♥#49’s Girl♥Lv 41 decade ago
Girls love smooth guys, so when you ask her out, say something like, "I want to have have dinner (or lunch) with the prettiest girl i know." or somthing like that. And if she laughs at you she's a stuck up *****, soooo many girls would love to hear that.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well duh you shouuld ask her (:
she would be flattered, and even if it doesnt go exactly how you planned you could have scored a new friend.
just recently this guy has been giving me vibes that he likes me .. he even asked my friends if i was seeing anyone.. of course it got back to me and i was flattered .. and he was nervous around me which made me like him even more (even though i already thought he was prtty cute) i still have a crush on him and all but other things have came up. so if you want to be really impressionable ask around then go up to her and try your heart out =] plus it could be a start to a better friendship and possibly future relationship
- 1 decade ago
ASK her out! What do you got to lose. At least you'll know where you stand. Don't be a wimp,about it.Chicks love when you got guts. Stand out from the rest.
Source(s): me - 1 decade ago
talk to her a lil more
find out her interests
see if you have anything in common
then if you still wanna date her just go up and ask her to the movies
nice and simple for a first date
- 1 decade ago
Definatetly. Until and unless you're not a Brad pitt look-a-like, never try your hands on gal DIRECTLY. Go talk to her, be friends with her and make her fall for you. Come on bro...you got it all.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
dosent matter if she has feelings for you or not you just stop being a pussy walk up to her and ask her out or u will develop a complex that will hinder your social preformance later in life