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OMG is he to old????? help me please?

ok i went to this vday dance and me and a friend went over and started talking to this one couple they were new to the area and didnt know many ppl around yet and ways we were having a great time hanging out with them (my friend and i are 20/21 this couple is about 31/32) anyways they ended up inviteing one of there friends over to the dance (this guy hes really good looking looks maybe late 20s but is 32) he seems really nice.

now im 20 very responsable and most guys my age tend to be creaps and would rather party kind of thing though ive met a few but nothing has really clicked.

ok i just got a message from this guy on fb asking if i would mind if he asked me out

now heres my problem i want to i really do

but is he to old????????

Update:

its not that i think its to old i dont really i just want to get other ppls opinions, if it was my friend asking me if she should go for it i would tell her yes.

to be honest im just nevous when it comes to dateing probably a bit more then most but that doesnt matter

Update 2:

and yes i am 20, i work as an LPN type of nurse, ive been out of highschool since june of 05

ill be turning 21 in september

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    OMG, lyke ys!!

    Source(s): Shut up, no you shut up
  • 1 decade ago

    If you are 21 and he is 32, hm... he is older than you 11 years, if you are a mature girl, then i don't think he is too old for you. If you do have feeling for him, then try to hang out once, and see if you two are good for each other or not. At least you got an answer instead of guessing.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Nope, not too old. I'm 21 and my bf right now is 30. As long as you like him age should not be an issue. Older guys are actually sometimes better because they are more mature and have their life together, and then when you get in to a long term relationship its good to know that he is stable in his life (hopefully) and probably has his life together, he can take care of you and provide for you. So yah, I don't think he's too old. Give him a chance and see how it goes, if you like him then great, if not then now you know

  • 1 decade ago

    Twelve years is pretty old...but you're 20 and he's 32.

    Age doesn't really matter at your point. There was a user here earlier asking about an amazingly stable relationship, whether theirs would last being 18 years apart.

    A lot of people said that since they seems good and stable, it doesn't matter.

    At your age, it depends on you.

    Tanto, pedo is 18+ having sex with 17-.

    She's 20.

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes but age is nothing really big unless u where like 20 and he was like 70 or something and u where just with him for his money. but with the age ur at right now and the age he is at no there should be not problem with u just giving it a a try. its just 12 years. if dating a girl right now she 10 year older then me but she just over looks it cause where happy with each other.

  • 1 decade ago

    There is definately something wrong with a 32 dating a 20 year old. And you seem a lot younger than 20, I'm having a hard time believing your even out of high school.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    as long as it is legal i really dont think he is too old... i am 22 and my boyfriend is 30, we have been together for 2 years and we are madly in love... women mature faster than men so being in our 20's means dating men in their 30's is about the same maturity level... beware though, there are times when you just wanna be that 20 year old and he doesnt want to wait around for you to grow up... if you are only 20 it may be difficult until your 21 because you cant go out too much together, but i think it was worth it for me...

  • To be honest, i don't see the problem. Yea, he's much older but that shouldn't stop a relationship from happening. Ask him if he would mind going out with you, since your younger than he is. See what he has to say. This could be a great opportunity. Just be safe and have fun!

    xoxoxo

  • 1 decade ago

    32 is not old!!!! My husband and I are 10 years apart. I'm 26 and he is 36. We have a beautiful 8 month old daughter together and he's a great father. Dont let age fool you, he might be the best man you've ever met

  • Harley
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I am 32 so I can speak from experience here.... YES! You don't have anything in common. He grew up watching You Cant Do That On Television, A-Team and Knight Rider. Was walking to school when he heard people screaming in their houses only to get to school and find out that the Challenger Crashes. He remembers when Reagan was shot. Remembers when MTV only played music videos. Listened to hair metal and still knows the words to Ice Ice Baby. He is too old!

  • 1 decade ago

    No I don' t think it's too old at all. But that would be up to you. Age is just a number.

    If you find him attractive and are interested in him, go for it, it can't hurt anything. It's just a date.

    Go have fun! Call him and tell him yes!!

    Good Luck!

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