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Why does he try to make me jealous?
He says he loves me and I love him back but it seems like he purposely tries to make me jealous and it just pisses me off,because he makes sure i notice everytime he tries to make me jealous. Even though he makes me angry he always tells me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me and that im the only one for him, and im confused.
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- ♥♥ LOVE GURU ♥♥Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
He's a really insecure man. He tells you he loves you, so you will respond with "oh I love you too." He's basically prompting you to say it. He may not even mean it. He just knows saying that will make you say it.
He's trying to make you jealose to prove to himself how valuable he is. If you don't get jealose, he will start to wonder why. What's wrong with him, that you wouldn't get jealose? Did you stop loving him? He may even escalate to flirting or cheating to get your attention at that point.
If he really loved you, he would not use you in this manor. You don't deserve this kind of treatment. It will get worse if he thinks it will make him feel better. If you ignore him, he'll escalate. If you notice him, he'll keep it up. It's a lose-lose scenereo. The relationship just doesn't sound healthy.
I suggest you find a man who loves you, for you and only you. If a man plays games, then he isn't really a man. You need someone who has good self-esteem, a healthy body image, security and confidence. You need someone who's a real friend as well as a lover.
Best of luck in life and love. :-)
- ?Lv 45 years ago
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Awww hun, I am so sorry that you are going through a tough time at the moment. I know how much you want a baby and I am so happy that you are not giving up. Truth is, as long as you desperatly want to be a mummy I don't think that you will stop being jealous. And if I am honest I think you have every right to be jealous and wish that it was you. You know what it is like to get a BFP and it is so normal that you want that again. Don't beat yourself for feeling like you feel. As you know, I was desperate for a baby and i thank God every day that it happened and that i have nevr suffered a miscarriage. But when i was trying every time one of my contacts got a BFP or when my friend got pregnant i would break down in tears and feel so jealous of them, to the point where i would look at thier scan pics on facebook and wonder what i had done to deserve the pain i was in. I can't speak for a miscarriage as I do not know how that feels but for TTC the good news is that the pain does go away. You never forget it, and I am sure you will never forget the baby you lost. Nor should you. But you will be happy again. Promise. Maybe you have to get that BFP before you feel happy again but look forward to it. If you got a positive OPK yesterday you are probably ovulating today or tommorow. So I would expect your period within 14 days. To be honest I would be testing within 12 days! I wish I could give you a hug because you sound like you need one. Grab little Aimee and give her the biggest squeeze. Above all try and believe that your pain is temoporary and that you will have your new baby in your arms so soon. You just have to wait to find out when!
- 6 years ago
If you're popular and likable, someone might try to bring your status down a notch by making you jealous. As everyone knows, it's not fun to be manipulated by other people. Learning to recognize when someone is trying to hurt you this way will help you figure out the best way to react
- Jami WLv 41 decade ago
He makes you tries to make you jealous because it makes him feel wanted. The more jealous you get the more he thinks you love him. It's just a way for him to feel like you love and care about him. I know it sounds strange, but guys are weird.
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- 1 decade ago
Its normal for this behaviour. He just wants to see some raw emotion from you, if it really bothers you, you need to talk to him seriously and tell him that he could be open about his needs and wants but that you dont appreciate him trying to make you jealous. If he continues tell him it WILL affect the relationship.
- 6 years ago
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Why does he try to make me jealous?
He says he loves me and I love him back but it seems like he purposely tries to make me jealous and it just pisses me off,because he makes sure i notice everytime he tries to make me jealous. Even though he makes me angry he always tells me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me and that...
Source(s): jealous: https://tr.im/l7z98 - Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe he wants to see how much you trust him. If he is trying to make you jealous, he wants to see how far you will go... He's obviously feeling insecure about something.
- 1 decade ago
He is just trying to prove How much u love him, and it makes a guy feel good knowing how much u care for him. Tell him u don't like it when he does that, ask him to put himself in your shoes. Ask him for a little respect.
- 1 decade ago
Cassidy, There are many reasons the guy wants to make you Jelouse:
- Either he aint too good lookin and thinks if he makes you jelouse you will Apreciate him more because you dont want him to be in the other girls arms.
- Likes the Attention
- Likes to feel cared about. The reason I say that is because if he chatting up a babe and u dont care he feels that you dont value him much. So on this one its the "VALUE"
- is this temporaraly or all the Time? because if its temporaraly then you shouldnt worry about it hes probally messing with you.
AND FOR THE LAST:
- Probally you made him jelouse or make him Jelouse so hes doing it back. probally your not doing it on purpose but he feels like it is.
But please dont do it back ( be the bigger person) because if you do he might get mad and do it even more and it could leed to cheating and we both dont want that. So listen to the Advice and Hope you like my response.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
he tries to make u jealous because he wants to see if u really love him. and when u get angry its showing it but on his part thats a bad route to go because ur just guna want to make him jealous cuz ur jealous then u guys r guna fight so what u need to do is just talk to him about it or just make him jealous make but only if u got to!!