Gay or not?

To be honest - you're gay.

There are SO many guys who are like this and confused and I was like this something similar before coming out.

If you aren't physically attracted to girls at all - you can't be straight. I really don't even think you can be bisexual because your emotional need for women can be fulfilled through friendships, at least mine are.

What I would do is keep your mind open to a relationship with a guy and perhaps if one comes along with the right personality, you'll be ready for a romantic relationship.

Keep your mind open to the possibility :) There are plenty of great guys out there.

i wonder if the desire for a romantic relationship with women is more from all the social pressure on guys to grow up, marry and have kids and do all the rest of the stuff of normal straight relationships. If that pressure were not there might you want to build a relationship with a guy where you already know you find both physical and sexual attraction.

Might be just a case of your mind trying to convince you that you need to be straight despite it knowing you are gay.

Regardless, give yorself tiime to mature and gain experience with life and see how it plays out. And as that happens act with knowledge of self rather than social pressure.

So you need to find a guy who's VERY feminine. OR, a woman who is not freaked out by 2 guys and big dildos(for you). Seems pretty easy to me. But than again maybe you are just denying the fact that you are a homosexual man. Could your upbringing be playing a part in you thinking you SHOULD be in a relationship with a girl? If so,you need to find a way to be true to yourself.

I want to label you as bisexual but you could have Pansexual feelings for men.

Pansexuality is were you are not attracted to the sex but you have romantic feelings

Maybe ur in denial about being gay, or maybe ur Bi. I know it sometimes seems hard to face reality, esp under these circumstances, but maybe ur physically but not emotionally attracted to guys, which will still make u gay.

You are either bisexual or a closeted gay guy who can't admit that he could fall in love with another man.

Someone's in denial...

Either your afraid that you are gay, and think that to calm your brain down, or you're bisexual - but I'm not you, so I couldn't tell you for sure.

Straight guys don't watch gay porn.

I think you should really think about if you are gay or bisexual.

Bisexual, probably.