need advice on how 2 overcome my feelings?

Salam Alikum

Hal shuma khobeh?

In these Days of muharam and safar when you have these feelings please let lady Zahraa(s) and lady Zainab(s) be your role models, don't be blinded by looks- all boys no matter how much they say i love you there is only one goal in their minds....(trust me I know by experience)

And later when you get married (eventually you will) how proud your mom and your dad will be of you!

In Islam a woman is like a jewel it is more valuable when it has one owner.

In your prayers ask Allah to guide you to the right path. I know it is hard to avoid these feelings right now (i was 18 myself) but trust me this phase in your life will past fast as you grow more mature in the meantime keep yourself busy hit the books,pray or talk to a (Muslim) friend or your mom and express your feelings like you did now.

If you have time there is this sayed who is a very good speaker -I'll give you a link- I listen to his lectures all the time

his name is mustafa alqazwini if you have heard of him listening to him makes me feel closer to allah and ah'lulbayt.

I really recommend you to listen to his lectures. okay gotta go, hope this helps....

Khoda hafez!.....

It's not wrong to like guys. Just as long as you're not willing to go too far with that. We all go through that at some point. It's just a random feeling that just pops into our lives when we least expect it. I'm sure you've had these feelings before. Just think back and ask yourself: How did I cope with this? Only you can know truly for yourself what you can do in order to cope with feelings like these. So, look within and fight those temptations.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Feelings are normal. It's what you do with them that can hurt you, if you make the wrong choice.

Don't listen to these people who tell you to live because you are young. The Bible says to remember God in your youth Ecclesiastes 11:10. Just keep praying, God promises to provide a way out of temptation Corinthians 10:13. Remember our lives would be a disaster if we lived by our feelings. Live by your choices instead.

ok, hey sister

why every thing is haram?

is the love is haram also?

your elder man always said, haram and he marry more than 5 women

do not believe them i told you what is haram realy.

when you marry if you just think by another man except your husband this is haram.

Because you have a book Between you.

but if you are free why not you love real love between people and the god this is your life not the life of your brother or another one.

you have to think good and you have Decision.

either you love this world love,marry, etc or you will Serve the god and the people and you stop Feelings

Peace and blessings be upon you

i am near to you in age and i am also muslim and go to collage.

Our religion want to save us and protect us from falling in troubles.

Many boys in the collage want to enjoy their times by going out with girls and play by their feelings , but others are good people.

You are not young , if someone love you , and want to make a relationship with you , he should talk to your family and they will manage and say what you can do.

In most cases ,in this age ,we want a partner ,but we may have a worng choice or may anyone decieve you and then regret at the end.

You may find many attractive characters in many guys with you in the collage , one is very polite , one is very intelligent , one wear a fantastic clothes , one is well built,..

Don't put anyone in your mind now , you went to the collage to learn not to get a man ,the God will send you the man which you desive at the right time .

i have friends in the collage , they get high marks at the first year but then when they made relationships with guys ,they marks decreased alot and they regret for the time which they waste .

you may meet the love in the collage but the person who love you will not stand with you for much time and will not let anyone talk about you and will not put you in a difficult situation.

May be a good boy in the collague love you and don't want to talk to you know and if this one saw you talk to anoyher boy and this one is not polit one , he will try to forget you.

Now you should now that guys want to enjoy the time and satisfy their needs with the beautiful easy girls and when they decide to marry the choose the polite girl which can protect his honour.

You are not this easy girl for boys to play with her feelings , and who want a serious relationship should go to my family.

And all other your collagues are your brother and have all the respect and friendship from you , and you should deal with them in respect and limits.

take a hint of advice...

Maybe you should just not think about the problem thru religion and look at it from your own perspective...

Have fun while you are young and can enjoy it...

After all having feelings for guys is natural....supressing these feelings for religion isnt...

I hate the flesh. How can you like 4 men humping on you? even if it is with the eye's? There is no creativity in the way we are created.

Love through the Love of God, the Love one has for God

Take up Christianity, and begin to date a little.....

Another reason I despise religion.

Please. Let go of your silly ideas, and enjoy yourself. Your youth will pass you by quicker than you know!!