Is My Husband Having an Affair - Please help me with this Poll?

either a or he plays fantasy baseball with his friends.

A) sorry girlfriend, this sounds like my ex before I left him..He was never where he said he was going to be, he gave her TONS of money, he gave her all kinds of stuff (jewelry, clothes), he did give her alcohol because I found out they would meet at a certain bar out of town, and he called her all the time..this was before cellphones were all the rage. Whenever I'd come home from work, the first thing I'd do is press redial and she would answer the phone on the other end....YOUR HUSBAND IS DEFINITELY CHEATING!!

although the things listed would not make me happy either, i think the most important signs of cheating are emotional absence, and a loss of interest in your relationship, which you didn't mention. my guess is that she is just a friend with some not so normal circumstances, may be going through some problems. i would say find more facts before you convince yourself he is having an affair.

I'd honestly be very suspicious of it, but wouldn't be too quick to call it an affair.

But when you combine those all with the fact that he was sneaking behind your back, it definitely doesn't look good. I'd say investigate a little more.

You can feel when they have an affair! Do you feel it? Then he is! If she were just a friend, why would he sneak around behind your back? Sorry, but your instincts are correct and should not be ignored!!!

Having an affair.

I don't know that he's having an affair, he may just be really dumb, but then again he may be with her..... But either way all of the attention, money, time he has spent on her were things that he has taken away from you and that's crap!!!!

I dont get what it is your asking exactly. You know hes having an affair so leave him. I know how hard it is, but if you want to have any dignity left then thats what you have to do

I think he is having an affair,

Sorry but I think you know the answer, or you wouldn't be questioning him.

I've been there.

Good Luck!!

sounds like A, but how are you finding this all out? did he tell you, did you follow him? If he told you then it may be innocent.