he is calling me everyday,but keeps canceling our dates?

he's 40. need i say more girls?

uuggghh, this is SO COMMON with extremely busy men. And so frustrating for the women the date. Because men like this are busy with work, they practically live "on-the-go" or on the phone. So, it's natural for them to think about you..and call you as soon as they do. The same way they do their business meetings. Problem is, they feel obligated to make time for those business meetings, the consequences of not making them hurts the company and they'll hear the compaints of LOTS of people.

You might have to simply ask him to "pencil you into his day..." If he doesn't just express that want to be given as much priority as those company obligations, after all...he should take the consequence of losing YOU seriously too.

But if he's calling everyday, he cares for you. Just remind him that just like in business, in relationships ACITONS speak louder than words.

Good Luck!

Is he married? - That would be my first question.

Secondly I had one like that, In the end i got to the bottom of it. He liked having company of me, when and where it suited, didnt want a full on relationship. He was the typical little black book type, and if he could get sex when he wanted it - Hey what a bonus! He needed to be wanted (on his terms). If it's not too late walk away while you can, you will get hurt!

This guy does not want you, he wanted what you gave him, sex. Now he is playing with your mind and heart, he does not love you. Stop answering his calls; don't speak to him any more and be thankful he keeps canceling out because he could continue using your body. You sound inexperienced, do yourself a favor and find someone on your level.

He might be married and wants to keep you on-the-line. If I were you (and this is the voice of experience), I would ignore his phone calls or flat out tell him to bugger off. He'll either change his tune or go find someone else to be "in love" with besides whoever he actually probably owes his time to.

I had friends have these experiences, and I hate to say it but to be honest the guys were generally dating more than one woman, but they kept calling even after the fact my friend found out he was dating other woman, they want everything when they have it they want to keep it, but they still want more unfortunately

i think he just wants some more sex with u and just wants to use u.Hes trying to set up another sex date with u.be careful girl

Maybe he doesn't want to feel obligated to have sex with you.

I hate to say this but are you sure he doesn't have a wife?Maybe that's why. if he can't find time to be with you, then dump him....

I think hes using u...sorry :(