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Ladies I need an advice?
Ok It's my dear wife's birthday & I want to get her something really special & I want to be sure that 100% she'll love it
So I'll get her gold jewlery (may be with a small stone)
the question is
Shall I take her to buy it ?
or it will be better (in terms of surprise) I pick it for her my self & give it to her
these things can't be exchanged as you all know & I'm afraid to get her something that she doesn't like so much.
Any suggestion will be great.
17 Answers
- ZoserLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Ya Sedi,,, Take her to pick it herself,,,not only, because she should choose it, but shopping,together, would be fun and another present for her,,,(how many times you are out together, do this fun picking something for her,,,) just take her out, a nice dinner,after rounds in the Market, the surprise will be the present and the going out..,,and happy birthday to her...
ps: sorry I did not read that it is directed to Ladies,,,lol
- BalsamLv 61 decade ago
Did you hear from her serious comments that you have a good taste?
Some men know how to choose and they have this reputation, in this case you choose for her and the gift will be a nice surprise.
If not I prefer that you choose 2 or 3 things, tell the jeweler to show them to her when she goes with you, and let her choose. I am saying so because some men do not know how to choose for ladies who have different ideas.
Also whether the gift suits her or not, if she tries it on she will decide better and will use it often.
In any case you can tell the jeweler that it is a gift and in case it does not suit her or the size is not perfect you are going to exchange it, he will agree.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
loool..the ladies gave u mixed views here
and i won't make it better
it depends on ur wife...
but if u could arrange it with the store that he prepare a collection of rings(that u have choosen and made sure they all fit ur budget) to show her when u take her there,that way she can choose whatever she want...so u ''darabt 3asforen'' u got her sth good and valuable and at the same time,she likes it..
but if u really really knows what she likes,then it's better to get it urself...
not sure go to the first choice....
- 1 decade ago
firstly ~*~*~ Happy Birthday to your sweet wife ~*~*~
secondly, you can surprise her with what she chooses :D
how?
if you have time ,a day or two before her birthday, you can go out together & have fun ...on the way,you can pass by the jeweller's ,and casually ask her about what she prefers [in an indirect way] ......... then,on her birthday, bring her the piece closest to her taste ....By this you have surprised her,which is sooooo sweet & have a different taste, and you have known what shall fansy her more ;)
keda ya3ny :D
Good Luck !
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- 1 decade ago
I think you know your wife well enough to not get her something she will hate definitely, don't worry and scare yourself from picking.. I'm sure you will get something acceptable! And even if it isn't totally her style she will still love it because it came from you and she will be touched you thought of her..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
take her to pick it, that will be so nice of u but here we go.
Tell her that u want to go out with her as a kind of change and take her lel gawahergy :D.
ask her do u like this, this, or that....etc. and when she picks something, just buy it with her.
Happy birthday for her ;-)
- HopeLv 61 decade ago
Speaking from a personal point of view here.....
I would like it even better if my husband let's me choose THIS gift, any other gift, well his choice would be great.
- JudyLv 51 decade ago
i pefer surprises... women like being given such things without noting for it [ESPECIALLY GOLD!!!] $$)
it is the closest way to women hearts like food is to men's stomachs lol.
if she is a gold person [like who isn't!?!?lol], go for it! and pick up sth you know will impress her. not sth she'll remind you of in a fight [god forbid!!!] ;)
p.s. some fowers will also do the trick عÙد جÙاز سعÙد
- .,Lv 41 decade ago
I think you should pick it out for her.
That will show that you remembered and cared about her.
ooooooo and get her like chocolate and a rose!
that will be sweet.
LOL
take her out its her day make her rest do whatever she wants.
make her feal special.
Source(s): plus she should make you feel special on ur bday to. LOL good luck!!!!!! hope everything turns out the way you planned. - ☆Lola Jade☆Lv 41 decade ago
either or she'll like it and she'll love it cuz its comming from the heart and thats the best gift its the thought that matters not the gift itself