is it possible for a happily married man to fall in love with another woman?

In no way are you a bad person. Love is a healthy feeling. It is also possible that a happily married man can fall in love with you. I have seen it happen. When it does get ugly is when he has to choose who he will be with. Then someone always gets hurt. I can not say it will be you or his wife. I hope you understand that. I also seen an incident where a man had a 30 year affair and his wife never found out about it. He just could not choose and his lover was fine with it. I hope this helps you and good luck.

Your not a bad person because of love, but because of the love that you know you shouldn't have. He belongs to someone else and you are his sidekick. Ask him if he would ever leave his wife for you, and see what answer you get. I've been there and done that and it only hurts all the people that are involved. Find someone that is single and can be with you and treat you the way you should be. Don't wait on a married man because it will never happen.

Look don't just follow your heart...you ought to be rational too

it cant go on like that...leave him, do it...

you said he is happily married, this means that he has a great family life however it might lack passion because he & his wife didnt know or try to revive it but thats not your problem...do you wanna be the mistress? the answer must be no! because this is not the kind of a relationship you deserve to be in....

he is not in a miserable marriage thats why you cant choose divorce as an alternative.

you are destroying a family, you have to separate you actions from your feelings and do what is Right & what is accepted by your moral conscience. be responsible & get out of his life.and yes, you are doing something "bad"

you need selfconfidence....to believe that you can be loved by another man...Learn to appreciate & love yourself thats all what you need...

moreover avoid him permanantely and avoid any temptation and find yourself a Single man that can devote himself to you alone....

You say you are not a bad person. If that is true you already know what to do. You know what you are doing is wrong. He is married but wants something on the side and will say anything to get it. Deeper than sex? I don't think so or he would have already left his wife. You need to wake up and smell the adultery. If you did get him, what have you got but a man that cheats on his wife. You know what to do and now you have permission to do it. Get to stepping.

It is very possible, but he is married and if he's not ready to leave this rerlationship you don't stand a chance. Why play with your emotions and get hurt in the process.

Yes

Big B....do you ever thought or consider to be in his wife shoes if she will to discover the so call relationship??? a good person should understood that issue and then being label as A bad person? is it worth? what ever you do pls consider the consequences. my advise.. let go of him and i promise you 1 day that you will find a better person not in the same situation as him. take care

It's possible, unfortunately.

Your not a bad person though, things happen.

you aren't bad. Im in the same situation. I fell in love with a married woman, because I felt bad that she didn't have any affection from her husband, and I fell into her trap... I regret making out with because Im now in love with her and want her so bad... she really confused me with her actions and words

yes it is possible , and it is common as well ..

and NO , you aren't bad ..

I believe that love differs from marriage ..