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eep! a little help, please...?
a few weeks ago i broke up with my boyfriend of a year-ish. a bunch of stuff has been going on lately, so i'm not sure if it was a rash decision. still, practically every month when we were together, i doubted the relationship so much i'd have this huge crazy psycho meltdown.
i figured the only way for us to break up was if HE rejected ME, because i didn't want to hurt him, so in the last few months, i tried valiently to get him to reject me. sure, i love him as a person, but not as a boyfriend anymore...or so i think. anyhow, i was a totally awful boyfriend and he still kept forgiving, so finally i broke it off because it hurt me to see him love me. (it wasn't at all this simple, but i'm keeping it as short as i can.)
though there is another potential relationship right now (i'm not sure...it seems a little soon, even though i thought i was done with the last relationship...but this guy is adorable AND intelligent! ^.^ ) i still have lingering feelings for my ex.
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i feel guilty, at first, for being such an ****** to him, just because i felt upset about the relationship but didn't want to hurt him. i did anyhow.
i guess my question is, is it normal to feel such attachment? at times, i HATED teh relationship, but i always loved him. it is because i care for him so much that i realized we couldn't work, at least at the time.
i'm not rebounding with this new guy either, but i'm scared that i'm not as emotionally ready as i think i am to move on. but i feel kind of...empty. of course, i realize i AM single, and on my own accord, but i thought that's what i wanted.
guess not? haha. sjfajsf.
sorry that was long. just i'm kind of...eep.
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
It's ok to be bummed out after having to dump someone. Truth is that if you weren't that into him you had no future together anyway...right?
Sounds like you had a lot of respect for him but just didn't want that sort of relationship.
Chill...cut yourself some slack.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well i think at the end of every relationship you still have feelings for your ex! it is normal dont worry! hope i helped if i didnt i am sorry!
- 1 decade ago
Foolish child! Are you so ignorant? Being gay is absolutely one of the greatest downfalls of man, of your man. Turn away from your unwavering perversion!
Source(s): the truth - 1 decade ago
umm, you broke up with him for a reason. i would not start up a realationship at all, or at least not for a while. and don't worry about braking up with him, all girls get all panicy about realationships
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