Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Tithes and Offerings ?

I pay my tithes and offering to my church, I give money, my time, and most of my life, to my church, and other do all so. If you pay all of this which at the end of the year come out to be from $1,000 to $5,000 for some people. Now if someone in you family should die and you would like for the funeral to be at your church and for your pastor to due the service for that morning. Do you think it's fare for the church to tell you that you have to give $100 to $200 to have use of the church and give the pastor $100 to $200 to peach the funeral, what about all the money you give all year to help keep the church going money for lights and gas bill and other things that they have to pay, that's what the tithes and offering are for, so why can't the pastor give a small gift of letting you use the church free, and a donation to the him, tell me what you think.

4 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I am Woman,

    I do not know you (but you sound like a sincere, godly person), and I do not know your church and it's pastor. But this sounds like an absolute shame to me! NO! If you are a faithful member, and tither, then I believe you should not be required to pay to use the church building. Especially for a funeral.

    The only exceptions I can even think of is if the building being used is being rented or leased (as this would be an extra time, but even then I would not ask for more money), or if the person was not a member (even in this case I still would not ask for money).

    I do understand pastors asking to help offset the costs of building maintenance/janitorial services for weddings, and other special events. But I do not understand him requiring a rental fee (especially from his members).

    I suggest you speak to him about it. Perhaps there is an exstenuationg circumstance that I cannot think of that would require him to do such a thing.

    Hope this helps.

    Elder Greg

    http://www.forministry.com/USOKPENTEMMM1

  • repent
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You cannot prove by the scriptures that you have to tithe.

    In the OT food was tithed and then they all got together to partake of the tithes (food). In other words they ate the food together.

    Your church! I wouldn't be going to it.

  • 1 decade ago

    the church you attended is not genuine christian otherwise they must be willing to help those who are in need with out expecting something in return much less asking payment in return for their service. originally or in the bible times, tithing was never practiced in christianity. not one verse. tithing was required by god only to the esraelites , only in their land ,only in the time of the law and only in the old testament.

    Source(s): holy bible
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Religion is a business in disguise.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.