how do i tell my friend im bi?

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she is a christian and has a bisexual friend who has a girlfriend and shes okay with it.

but ive known her for three years almost four and weve been through so much. like sleeping in the same bed, changing clothes in the same dressing room and like shaving our legs together. i dont want her to think that like im "checking her out" or have a crush on her or anything.

i just want to know how to tell her. every time i go to tell her i chicken out or dont know HOW to say it. i dnt want to put a dent in our friendship or whatever. it means so much to me.

Marty has his hand up · Accepted Answer

Just tell her. You're being a baby. If she doesn't accept you for it then get a new best friend. There are 6 billion people in the world, you'll be ok.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, it sounds like she'd be okay with you being bi. The only hard part is letting her know that you aren't interested in her (right?) When you come out, just say something like "I hope we can still stay friends. I only think of you as a friend, so you don't need to be freaked out or anything. I'm not the type to check you out, either".

Good luck!

boberteat · Answer

just tell her exactly what u said after you told her ur bi u where afraid to tell her because - etc if she dusnt understand shes not much of a best friend it may be a bit of a shock if she didnt know or guess but i think shel be ok if shes ok with the bi friend she has not all christians follow the bible to the book they dont all hate gays and bi's and such luckily you ave a friend that seems to be a younger generation who is open minded and more accepting

Patrick · Answer

Well you need to be straightforward with her.
Tell her you're bi.
But then follow that by telling her that you are not interested in her as more than a friend. And tell her it does not change your relationship with her. 
If she gets uncomfortable, remind her that you have been friends for all this time and you have been bi. It's just that now you feel you can be more honest with her.
Best of luck!

Enzo · Answer

i did the same kinds of things with my best friend when i came out to her (i'm a lesbian) she was like oh that's cool my cousin is to.
for a while we were a little distant we talked but didn't see eachother much but we got over that.
all i said was that i didn't want to spend the rest of my life with a man and she worked out the rest.
the best way to do it is to say it quickly then gradualy explain what you mean if you have to, its not easy but its better when your friends know.

good luck

timothy_yeav · Answer

she has to accept the fact that ur bi, and if she changes towards u, then shes not a real friend, b'cuz if she says im not ur friend anymore or she treats u different then shes not a true friend.

Anonymous · Answer

Just Say It Walk Up To Her And Say-

Hey (blank) I am bisexual!

Mr. Man · Answer

I'm bi nough said

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