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Should I get into a relationship with this girl?
I just got out of a 2 year relationship last fall, and a few months ago I met a new girl. She's respectful, honest, sweet, successful, treats me like a prince...everything my ex g/f wasn't. The biggest problem is, I don't have half as much chemistry with this new girl as I did my ex. Not to say we don't have fun, but that's always on the back of my mind. Maybe that's why i'm really hot/cold about the new girl too. Somedays i'll think she's great, others i'm just not so sure if I can see myself with her long term. We've been dating 6 weeks or so, and it feels like she'll be wanting the next step soon. Would it be dumb to get into a relationship with her given my somewhat unsure feelings? Any advice? Opinions?
7 Answers
- spokyLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Just an opinion: don't do it. It's really soon and you're still comparing with your ex. It would be unfair to this other girl to lead her on when you're still in the process of letting go of the first one.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i think the best thing to do is take it day by day. 6 weeks is not really a long time to judge a person. but hey if she treats you bettter than your ex ever did than that should be reason enough to stick around for a while. just remember that if she wants to take it to the next level tell her you just got out of a long relationship and you want to take it slow.
- 1 decade ago
i think its way too soon in the relationship for you to be thinking about long term plans. who knows what may happen between now and that point. your chemistry may sky rocket, or she may break up with you and you wont have to worry about it. besides that, you could always talk to her about how you feel if it turns into a deeper relationship. talk to her about how you feel and im sure shell reciprocate. maybe she can help you 'spice' things up a bit, add to the chemistry. youll never know until you try. ;)
Source(s): experience/life - 1 decade ago
It won't be fair to her if you do...She deserves consistency and that is something that you can not provide at this time..It is not a crime to tell the truth to someone at the beginning. Friends are hard to find ...you might want to keep her around as such.
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- 1 decade ago
Yes. I think you need to be honest with yourself and to her...It's better to be honest and open than to get involved without being sure because that will hurt more if it doesn't work out!
- 1 decade ago
i tink u should stay wit her and see how it goes in the long term relationship, if u feeling dont change then u should tell her about it