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Is it normal to have a lack of sex life?
I have a friend that has been married for the past 8 years. His wife hasnt had sex with him in over 5 months, and she has never given him oral, and will only have sex with him with her on top. Is this normal to have dry spell? Or should he be worried?
I know this b/c he is my friend, and friends typically talk about problems with one another. They are in thier 20's. She didnt have a baby, no meds, I dont think she is cheating...I am asking this here b/c i wanted a group response to see from people that are out of our group of friends.
I love how people jump to the fact that i am sleeping with him. You can take an innocent ? and turn it into trash. I cant just be a concerned friend? Just b/c i am a woman and he is a man I sleeping with him??? If i was sleeping with him I doubt he would be bitching to me about not getting any. And if i was giving it up i doubt i would be worried about him not getting any from his wife and if he should be concerned about it.
You people are such prudes...SERIOUSLY
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Maybe they dont have sex because they suck at it, and maybe she doesnt do oral because she sucks at it. Or maybe they dont have sex because she cant take such a massive man.
I think you should sit them down and teach them a few things. Swinging is great, and maybe you could open them up to a more intiment relationship.
A real friend will do what they can to help their friends get laid!
People are so quick to tell others to mind their own buisness, which is rather funny seeing as how they are playing keyboard warriors on a "Question and Answer" website
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- Precious PLv 41 decade ago
maybe her sex life change,you know some people men/women loss there desire for sex,she just needs to see a doctor,then on the other hand is this friend that you speak of in a relationship with you and telling you this so he can lay with you,this is an open question and you have to look at this from both sides you and your friend and his wife that you speak of.you seem to know an aweful lot about his wife of 8yrs.anyone who reads what you have wrote can read between the lines,your cheating with this married man,and he's feeding you what you want to hear.here's a better answer to your question talk to his wife.
- 1 decade ago
Its probably normal to have a dry spell after being married that long but it shouldnt last 5 months! Poor guy.
- Violet PearlLv 71 decade ago
First of all, it's a breach of his marriage vows to discuss his sex life with another woman-- you. I can see why his wife isn't interested if he's spilling intimate details with other people.
That's not appropriate, and not only is it none of YOUR business, it's not your business to post on the internet.
As for what's normal or not, that's between the couple.
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- 1 decade ago
many factors can play into a dryspell did they have a baby she on any meds is she cheating is he? age is a huge factor could be anything they might need to try something new like role playing toys
- Anonymous1 decade ago
there is a reason why she's not sleeping with him, how come he's telling you and not getting any counseling? there is something rotten about this apple. i would not indulge him in his marriage woes, because the more you fed into it the more supceptible you are to falling into something you should not be in. don't help him weave that web of deception with you, i don't care how nice he is. he needs to tend to his own family bussiness, it's always 2 sides to every story.
- 1 decade ago
well first of all thats none of your buisness what his wife does..she got her reasons..and love isnt about sex and oral shyt.
- 1 decade ago
how do you know this and why would you ask it here
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