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How do you know?

If the guy is right for you. If you know he loves you and that you love him but something might hold you back because it's maybe not meant to be or something, but how do you know if the guy is not using you or just wanting you temporarly?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You will know in time, everyone eventually shows their true colors, If he doesnt pressure you for sex, and he is understanding of your feelings, and respects you, then he probably cares about you, but dont make the mistake of falling in love too quick, my father gave me some great advice, make sure he loves you ore than you love him.....and It works alythough I am not good at it... good luck!

  • TreMis
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You will know, I don't think it can be explained. There is something that you feel when you are apart in anticipation till the next time you see each other.

    If its meant to be, it will be. No one really knows where or when true love will come to them. Take things slow, look for signs that he feels the same way as you. If things are going good for the both of you now, why question it? As long as you are happy with the way things are going, then let it run its course. As see where you go...

  • 1 decade ago

    You don't 100%. Some amount of trust is inevitable in any relationship. The more serious the relationship, the more the amount of trust involved. Obviously, you have to temper the trust with logic. The key is to use both your head and your heart. I have seen the best way is to take it slow and steady. This way, you have an opportunity to know and assimilate more about him and because you have not committed too deep, if God forbid something happens, you can always pull out with the least bit of damage to yourself.

    I know it is incredibly romantic to fall head over heels in love with a stranger but I can assure you, strong relationships take time.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    All guys want you temporarly at first, but the right girl will have them wanting her longer and longer. If you it, then it will work out, if not, move on.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he woul keep asking or trying to have sex with u ,does not want to hang out or don't pay u any attention when u know u r in love he would not ask of anything but your heart

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I dont think every guy wants you temp. at first thats b/s.

    but if ur thinkin bout these things wit him then u should find another b/f

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i will tell u this i have the same problem right know i think it depend . how the men look at it and how they feel toward u.it really hard to know

  • 1 decade ago

    boys will be boys so just take it slow an if its meant to be u will no

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Remember to follow your instints! If it doesn't feels right it isn't!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    go out with him but don,t have sex with him untill later, if he leaves because you won,t have sex with him then he ust was using you if he waits then it is true love.

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