Should my fiance dance with his step mother during the mother/son dance? Or a grandparent?

if he is just starting to get close to her then asking her to dance with him will seal their friendship forever more. what a lovely thing to do! i think it will be a very emotional moment for both of them.!

If he's JUST starting to get close to his step-mom, he might not be comfortable doing the dance of honor with her. I think its okay to nix it completely. I did a father-daughter dance, but my husband's mom hates to dance and didn't want to, so they didn't do one at all.

Honestly, I think the father daughter dance is more important. The purpose of the dance is to share a special time with your parent. If he isn't close then don't force it. Just nix it. You can just dance with you dad.

Honestly....what is one dance......If he is just starting to get close to her....then certainly go for it....It is only one dance.....

They both can handle that....besides after you and your Father start dancing and about 1/2 way thru your dance...you should motion to your Groom to join in on the dance floor with his Stepmom....that way it is like one family joined as one....That is how I did it....and it worked out well. No need to dedicate and make separate speeches for each song....That just drags out the whole tradition. I wanted to get on with the rest of the reception.......I didn't want it to be stuffy and hold to the "rules".....

It would be a nice token for him to have some sort of dance with her, though I wouldn't have it be to a mother/son tune. I'm sure she would be very moved by it, and it will only help them become closer.

I think that he should dance with his Grandmother cause if he just getting close to his stepmother. I wouldn't want to take things to fast with his stepmother ,cause then if he was to dance with her and she make him mad it's going to run through his mind that he dance with a women he don't like.

ok i vote for step mom but if it is maternal grandma his mother's mother and she can dance ok i would then do it like this you and dad start out, then you and step mom join in, then dad takes step mom and you finish with grandma, or is that too choreographed? by the time you finish with grandma everybody else should be omn the dance floor so it should flow, then her dad winds up with his grandma for the big finale

I think if he is comfortable dancing with his step mom then he should, if he doesn't then I wouldn't do it at all. I think she would feel rejected if he danced with his grandmother instead.

It should be who he is most comfortable with, sounds like that maybe be a grandmother.

Good luck1

He should dance with his stepmom. Isn't she helping with the wedding financially along with his dad? And did she not help to raise him? He can do a special dance with Grandma if he wants to as well.

Good luck!