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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Trying to make me jealous?????

my ex-bf has dated 2 of my friends, but he never hangs out with them....we had a dance and i was with my friends dancing but when i turn around i would see him staring at me....i would move and he would follow me....i think he is trying to make me jealous by dating my friend but i don't kno... i want to confront him but don't want to look stupid when he actually likes my friend and i dont want to ruin my friendship by telling her that he is using her...confused plz help!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    just ignore it. if you do step in and confront him, he might just try to make u look crazy for doing it to make it seem like you just can't handle him being with someone else. If you go to your friend, she might just brush it off as you being jealous. live your life. But if it gets close to an extreme, then you might wanna intervene and bring it to your friend's attention by letting the guy get caught in his act. if he's using her, she'll find out on her own. and if he's trying that hard to get your attention, something's wrong that he's gotta try to make you jealous just to do it. Sounds like he's really up to no good. But things will happen the way they're supposed to.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Why do women try to make guys jealous? Whats with the really general questions? Honestly, if a guy is trying to make you jealous more than likely you did something that hurt him and he's immature so he's trying to get back at you. Getting revenge helps them get over the heartbreak I suppose. Just like everything else in relationships though, this one goes both ways.

  • 1 decade ago

    Old trick in the book. Using friends to get ex's jealous.Classic move. Of course, it looks like he still has feelings for you and that he has to deal with himself. Confronting the issue is a no no and you have to let your friend find out herself. You don't want to place yourself in a situation where you wanna look stupid.So don't. Let it play out itself and all will come out sooner or later. Friends shouldn't date friends ex's. Isn't that the rule.

  • Keeper
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    My ex tried that jealous stuff on me. She went way too far with it. She re-married, had 3 kids and bought a house and moved out of state trying to make me jealous. Ha ha, the laughs on her, it didn't work. I'm not falling for that anymore. I'm sitting here waiting on her to call as we speak, when she gives up and wants me back.

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  • 1 decade ago

    he could be attracted to your friend but I doubt he has feelings for her.. it is all a part of a game people play to get you wanting them and then when you do they dont want you.. Im in the situation way.. I have to hear about different people and then when I back off I get accused of messing with other people, but if i show i have feelings I get accused of being jealous and wanting to know all their business.. its a hard game to play try and find someone that doesnt wanan play a game and wants to be open and honest with their feelings so you dont end up completely in love with someone and never being able to show true feelings

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no dont even confront him becuase theres a chance that you might be wrong even though the signs may look strong. he'd think youre just flattering yourself. all you have to do is keep moving away and dont make eye contact. if hes making you jealous then dont fall for it, let him play this little game by himself. i'm sure you have more important things to do.

  • mick
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Your friends are lame for dating your ex, first off. Unless they asked for and were given permission, and then again depending how long ago they were dating.

    If he's using other girls to make you jealous, he's not worth your time anyway. Ignore him and find someone who's not so immature.

  • bones
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Forget about him. I can tell u are young because i wouldn't have a friend that will date my EX-BOYFRIEND. U need to forget about the both of them and move on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    that's how some exes act around each other, don't worry bout it. If u ignore him he will stop and he might get tired of ur best friends. Him and ur friends won't work out, promise...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If its REALLY bugging you talk to them about it seperately...The BEST thing to do is basically let it roll off of your back and find someone new.He'll realize what he's lost soon enough.If you still want him after he's grieved then take him back...You're friend did you wrong too.Thats your ex...THEY'RE OFF LIMITS FOR FRIENDS.

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