What do I do about my ex-girlfriend?

It sounds like you are only pushing her further away with all of the attention that you are giving her. You said that she has broken up with you three times? I'm so sorry to be saying this but if she is acting like that and refusing to talk to you and she has said goodbye that many times, it sounds like she is beyond ready to move on with her life. Perhaps if you just stop trying to contact her she will come around later on and want to talk to you. It could be that she needs some time to herself and then maybe she will contact you later on, on her own terms. But I do think that it might be time for you to let go and have things work themselves out on their own. Good luck.

It's been four months, you need to move on. If she's left you three times already, I wouldn't consider that there's something wrong with you but more likely with her. I know that's hard to hear, but it sounds like she has some major issues that she needs to address before she can be in any kind of healthy relationship. Meanwhile, you're eating your poor heart out over nothing you've done. It's time to move on, whether or not you want to. It might be an idea to consider seeking help to cope with your feelings and eventually put everything into perspective.

I wish you all the luck there is to be had, it's not going to be easy, but things will change for the better, eventually.

You need to realize that when you are involved with another, you are not in control. The relationship goes as far as the least interested party.

You can't act out your love for her because she isn't interested and it is a waste of time.

There are many fish in the sea and you need to move onto a new one, preferably one that wants to get married to you. If you can't get over this woman on your own, see a therapist or get a book on ending relationships out of the library. You can always do a search on the Internet as well.

Had you allowed her to end it when she wanted to end it, you probably could have remained friends and babysat her son. Then you would have had access to both of them. Because you focused only on your feelings and not hers, she cut you off. She doesn't trust you anymore.

She's your ex. I know it's a bitter pill to swallow but obviously she is not interested in having you in her life anymore. You need to stop obsessing over her before you get arrested for stalking & or harassment! In other words, get a life! Go out & meet some people, take a class, join a club, bowling league, become a board member, etc . There's someone else out there for you. Believe me. I know. She's not your property! Let her loose. Stop dwelling on her. Find some positive interests. Best of luck to you on your new life.

Do EXACTLY the opposite of what you're doing----even as painful as it sounds----the more she pulls away, the more you should pull away. When she discovers you have lost interest and you disappeared the odds are better that she will try to contact you at some point.

Women are like cats---they need lots of space and comfort. You never chase a cat. You give it a bowl of milk, turn on some soft music, and walk away. It will come to you when you dont show interest in petting it.

If you keep phoning her and sending her letters you are only going to push her further away. Back off and give her space. If she doesn't want to go out with you anymore you will just have to try and move on and stop contacting her. She is not responding when you do so she is telling you to leave her alone. Your attention is unwelcome by her.

Its really hard what your going through but honestly the best thing would be to just leave her for a while and see if she contacts you eventually. If she doesn't then you will just have to get over her and realise it just wasnt meant to be. Once you get used to not wanting to phone her it will gradually get easier and you will move on, it just takes time.

wright down the things you hated about her and read`em every day from time to time

Disappear from her life take deep hot baths go on a vication date other girls do what ever you both did before take your new girl to the places you went to with ur ex in the past and take a look at yourself your gonna say "hey she`s not the only girl in the world" Move on , Love Yourself

She doesn't want you around. She is sending a clear message. If you continue to contact her, she may get a restraining order. Just move on and find someone else. I know its hard, but sometimes you just have to let go.

take the hint and back off. you do not want her to see you as one of those stalker exes. if you continue to feel this way about her in a few months, give her a call, but respect her wishes if she says she doesnt want to be with you.