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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Found PLAYBOY Magazine hidden in GFs bathroom?

I was going to the bathroom in my GFs bathroom the other day and yeah, I was snooping a little I guess. Well at the very bottom of one of the drawers under her sink, I found a PLAYBOY magazine. It had some corners folded in on specific pages with some hot girls on it. Now my GF has admitted to masturbating, but she never told me about the magazines. I don't know how to feel. It was quite a shock. I mean at first it was kind of hot thinking she was doing that while looking at these pictures. But then I started thinking, well if she's into that, I obviously can't satisfy her fully and it got me kind of worried.

Should I be concerned about the discovery?

Is it normal for college girls to do this?

Should I talk to her about it?

Update:

She lives with her parents and it's HER bathroom. No one else uses it.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Admitting to masturbating does not necessarily mean that she is admitting to using a playboy to do it. Let me be frank when I say MOST girls are not turned on by dirty pictures, usually the only times that porn works for us is if we are watching it with a guy. Most likely she was looking at the magazine to get an idea of what she would like to look like. This is why we look at other women to say "hey I wish I had her butt" etc. Don't jump to conclusions that quickly and for goodness sake stop snooping....obviously you have some insecurities if you are looking for thing. You need to be honest and tell he what you found and I could almost promise that the pages with the corners turned are pictures of girls she is trying to emulate. If she happend to have bi sexual tendencies, that does not mean that she does not want to be with you or that you don't please her. My advice, be honest with her and have a good talk! Good Luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    First off DON'T SNOOP; i mean if it was lying on the floor thats acceptable but under the sink in a drawyer under other stuff... COME ON! Secondly i guarantee that you have masterbated to pictures and you may not have done it because you were unsatisfied. If it really concerns you then talk to her but be prepared to hear what I've already said. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate her rooting through your stuff. Best of luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    If she had Playgirl, I would understand. Playboy opens up a whole new bag. Just confront her but do it gently. Say something like, "yeah, I read that issue of playboy before," maybe she'll find it funny. Good luck.

  • Die S
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    1 decade ago

    Why haven't you asked her to show you what she does with the magazines yet?

    You should talk to her about it but I wouldn't be too concerned it's college girls like to experiment during this time.

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  • 1 decade ago

    almost every girl has looked through a magazine that has other girls on it . expecially if she's in colledge but if your instincs say that she is also interested in girls then that may be a problem because she might get confused and break up with you so you really should talk to her or your relationship might be at risk

    hoped that helped

    ***$ruthie$***

  • 1 decade ago

    well the magazine was probably an old bf's and no big deal. every body masturbates. if it bothers you find a way to bring it up and see if she is into girls, but don't be discouraged. it will work out..

  • 1 decade ago

    She's probaby bi then. If that is the case then it is kind of normal.

    Besides you shouldn't of been snooping. Just joking. Just don't talk to her about it. SHe might get mad by the fact you were going through her stuff. Girls tend to be.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well it is normal but she will do it for a long time! just dont fret! If that is why she might breack up with u she is just stuiped! u could do something special 2 her! It would make her happy! anyway I do it all the time! it just calms us down I mean seriously everyone does it!

  • 1 decade ago

    Most guys would dig this.

    It doesn't mean you're inadequate, it just means she appreciates eye candy as much as the typical male does.

    And people in relationships [satisfy themselves] more often than single people. Relationships increase your libido significantly. There's research behind this.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hey come on, its not that the girls do it cuz they don't enjoy it with their man, but hey, what can i say, we explore. i know people think i'm wierd cuz i love drawing girls in bikini's and stuff...i'm not a freak or anything, i guess i just do it cuz i've always wantd to look like them. i'm not the skinniest and i dont have really any good physical features,, but thats just me. girls are like that. just like a lot of guys i know do that, evne my bf.

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