Hello i`m Lucy, I think some of you know who I`m , I wrote 4 days ago regarding my husband recieving?

Depending on what cell phone service you have you can get on-line and set up to be able to view your bill on-line. An itemized bill shows EVERYTHING. Every number coming in and numbers dialed out. Times the calls were made etc. Otherwise they send them in the mail and you could look at it before he gets home or call and have them send you an itemized bill. It would be easier for you to do it on- line though. Good luck and yeah I would say he is cheating. You actually have to take time to set a different ringtone on your phone for different callers so if he has done that and everyone Else's ringtone is the same then yeah,he is up to no good!!

What you could do is find out who is the carrier of that phone and have that phone shut off, or change the password so that you can only answer it. Or you could get his phone while he's in the shower or asleep and take it apart piece by piece. Take the battery out of it or put it in the sink filled with hot water. Destroy that phone. If he's cheating, that'll get his attention and maybe you can find out what is going on. If he gets violent, then call the police and leave. The only way you can get the investigator to find out his phone activity is if he has access. Or hire the PI and tell him what you think, if he's worth his weight in salt, he'll everything in his power to make sure you are taken care of, and that includes a full investigation and cell phone records. You should give all these a try because talking isn't an issue anymore. He's hiding something and I don't think it's your birthday present.

I can feel the anxiety you have over this, but try to be rational.

You know that something isn't right, and it's tempting to invest all of your energy into finding out exactly what is going on. I'm going to let you in on a little secret. You may never know exactly what is going on---most people don't.

If someone wants to have an affair, they will find a way to have it without their spouses knowledge, but eventually they expose themselves. The question you need to answer for yourself is---what will you do if your husband is cheating on you? This is the only thing you have any control over---what you will do. You can't prevent your husband from doing anything, and there's no way for you to know everything. Take some time, formulate a plan, keep your eyes open, and follow through with your plan if and when you know something for sure.

I thought you couldnt block private numbers on a cell phone?

you need to get into his phone,like when hes sleep or not gonna be around for a few minutes.Check all his **** in it,write down or bluetooth,every number incoming,and outgoing,and make sure to note the length of the call,and what the name is to that number if its in his contacts..he could have a name like,aunt bee,and turns out,it his hoe,beth..dont forget the dates.Alot of cheaters text eachother more than call........to test that just simply start texting him randomly,like hi baby just wanted to tell you love you,or hello...whatever.document the dates and times you send them,and check his phone asap after he gets home.See if your text has been deleted.If so.. a good sighn.that means hes clearing all his text before he gets home....hmmm.its smart to not say anything,let him dig his own hole.also,i hope you have his pass code to check his voicemail from a home phone,if not it will be easy to get.Call his cell when your both home,but BLOCK the number.hopefully he wont answer so it goes to voicemail,and let it go just long enough to alert him he has a new voicemail.when he goes to check it,pretend your not watching or cant see but watch what numbers he puts in for his code........and there you go...also,the ringtone he set for that supposide private call,was it the same as your blocked call?ow,and one more thing,his cell bill is great detail of the activity,your his wife,you should have acess to that,or an online bill.Untill then dont question him or act different,if anything i would be a little more sweet and alot more observant..........good luck! keep us updated

Well with out knowing what he does for a living, its very possible that it can be work related.. and either its confidential, or hes the type that likes to seperate work from his home life and thats why he doesnt answer.

Now with that being said If he's cheating on u.. he's doing more then just talking to her on the phone.. if he's going to this much trouble to keep it from happening at home.. i mean u are just going by the fact that this has only happened ONCE!..

So my suggestion to you is to start looking through your husbands things, most men suck at covering their tracks fully..and will leave evidence around.. nothing turns up there.. start making surprise visits to his job at lunch time.. either to actually meet up with him or just to stake out the parking lot and see what he does at lunch time.. because if he has someone on the side, he obviously is doing it when he's away from the house meaning during the day mon-friday.. so start watching while he's at work, or if he has a habit of being late from work, start being in the parking lot at the time he'd normally get off of work, and see if he's actually leaving to go somewhere else.. and not really at work.. but IF everything looks like its on the up and up you HAVE to stop at some point and realize your husbands not doing anything wrong, and learn to trust him..

While I cannot say with 100% confidence he is cheating, I am 98% positive. If you wish to find out the number of this person calling, simply get a copy of his cell phone record, you are his wife and will not be breaking any laws, just call up the provider, identify yourself, and proceed.

Do you have any other reason to suspect him of cheeting? Cheeting in the past, lipstick on the collar, unkept appearence whern he comes home from the office? etc. If not I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt and trust him. For all you know it he could be making arrangements for you two to get away on a romantic vacation. Two years ago around valentines I was coming home late and, well, I don't think my wife suspected an affair, but she could of. Well it took two weeks, but I wrote a notebook full of my thoughts, experences, and feelings from our dating time. It wasn't as big of a hit as I thought it would be, but it was something from the heart.

I had the same problem only it started with him receiving emails. I questioned one, from that time on he passworded his account and would never read his mail with me around. I recently got my hands on one of his cell phone bills and lo-and-behold...I got numbers. I did a search online and found what I had suspected, to be true. I have told him I am filing for divorce...a few days later he tried to show me his email account. I refused to look...it was too late. It has been a long road for me, kids involved, but I am stepping forward and moving on with my life. Marriage is built on trust...he has demolished all the trust I ever had in him. Best of luck to you.

Im really sorry to hear that how awful for you, i lost a baby at 7 weeks but i dont think that can be as devastating as loseing a child at 24 weeks, Im really sorry xx

have u ever thought what would u do if he is cheating? and it sounds like he is. so let's assume he does and u confront him and he admits - what will u do? kill him? cry? leave him? so dear first u decided whether u want to know the truth and later u deduct whether he is cheating or not. to me sounds like he does