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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Found PLAYBOY magazine in GF's bathroom?

I was going to the bathroom in my GFs bathroom the other day and yeah, I was snooping a little I guess. I know that was wrong. Well at the very bottom of one of the drawers under her sink, I found a PLAYBOY magazine. It had some pages bookmarked with some provacative photos. Now, my GF has admitted to masturbating, which we're both completely open about, but she never told me about using magazines, let alone magazines of naked women. I don't know how to feel. It was quite a shock. I mean at first it was kind of hot thinking she was doing that while looking at these pictures. But then I started thinking, well if she's into that too, I obviously can't satisfy her fully and it got me kind of worried.

Should I be concerned about the discovery?

Is it normal for college girls to do this?

Should I talk to her about it?

Thanks

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  • .
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Geez, just as men looking at porn has nothing to do with whether or not their woman 'satisfies' them, nor does it mean that when women look at porn. Her enjoying a magazine with naked people in it has NOTHING to do with your ability to satisfy her (your insecurities are showing).

    You're not around 24/7...sometimes she gets aroused and you aren't available. Nothing wrong with her using whatever fantasy she desires to get her release, just as it's okay for you to do as well.

    Relax...ask her about it if it troubles you that much. Perhaps she'll share them (the mags) with you. ☺

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    First off DON'T SNOOP; i mean if it was lying on the floor thats acceptable but under the sink in a drawyer under other stuff... COME ON! Secondly i guarantee that you have masterbated to pictures and you may not have done it because you were unsatisfied. If it really concerns you then talk to her but be prepared to hear what I've already said. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate her rooting through your stuff. Best of luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldn't worry to much. You didn't mention if she has roommates...it might not even be hers. But even if it is you have nothing to worry about. Guys look at porn and it is socially acceptable and even expected. So why is it taboo when a woman wants to do the same...regardless of what she is looking at. Plus I think you can be a straight woman and still find another woman sexually attractive. It doesn't mean that they want to jump their bones or date a woman...they are just attracted to a woman's body...I think it's pretty normal..even if a lot of people don't agree with it or admit it. So no worries

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't worry about it.

    I'm sure you can satisfy her, but you're not there all the time, and sometimes it's fun to go solo.

    Also, a lot of girls think girls are hot, we just don't really want to have sex with them.

    If you guys are really open in your relationship, you could ask her about it...maybe she'll invite you to join in. However, she could feel that you've invaded her privacy, so use discretion.

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  • K J
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Let your gf have some fun its totally normal for college girls!

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course, another possibility is that you are not the only male that has used / uses that bathroom.

  • 1 decade ago

    That is kinda odd but I would not recommend talking to her about it she will be mad that you snooped and might be embarrassed

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    honey girls have sexy bodys there are tons of straight girls that like the female body that way.... she may be bi-curious college age girls often are

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That is fantastic. You should feel very lucky!!!! I would try to support her!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    no need to worry. she's just having fun...

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