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I would be freaked out too.

I can't call someone "gay" I don't know, but I can say that's it really uncomfortable knowing that he would want to be with someone else and have you there "cheering" it on. BTW what's a "she-male"?

I think the bottom line is this suggestion doesn't show he has respect for your relationship. You need to figure out what you are willing to put up with, and how much respect you have for yourself.

A lot of men are actually turned on by the idea. Sometimes the reality is what they are wanting, and other times they soon find out its best to leave it as a fantasy

What you should know is, it is not the fact that he might be gay. Sounds like he has a fantasy and he is wanting to share it with you. This might seem strange to you, and that is natural of course, and no law saying you must agree to it. But, try to understand the psychological aspects to it, I can't go into extreme detail, but you can look it up online. Men who want a shemale is like men to like strap-ons, they are interested in escaping their daily roles as dominants in the world (such as if they are a boss or try to act 'manly') and a shemale at times is in a way of getting a woman who has that manly characteristic in order to switch the "roles" without focusing on switching the gender. Does that make sense? He wants to experience a woman, but a shemale would be like an expression of the side of himself that he sees as dominant, dominating him in his fantasy, the way he would dominate his reality. Usually, it has nothing to do with being gay. Its strange to think of, I understand, but you must talk to him about it, and ask him questions like you want to understand and suggest alternatives such as strap on play if possible.

I hope this helped.

It doesn't really make him Gay or anything else besides a CHEAT .... IF he is in a comitted relationship with YOU ...

I'd be hunting for a new BoyFriend !!!

I say you support him in his fantasies and maybe find a way to work yourself into one or two of them.

Let him be curious, and let him know what he can do for you in return.

Yea I think so. but he might be bi.....

or Maybe he's not really interested in you and wants you to get disgusted an break up with him........

curious

obviously it's not serious if he wants to have sex with other people...think if that's really what you need & want....

id be worried really worried that's gross don't go four moral support who does he think he is even asking you

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Sorry, not necessarily, he just has a very long menu.

omg hes so ridiculous.. u not deserve to be treated like that.. hes gay.