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Martin D asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

My mate has a clitoris not a penis?

But he looks very much like a man, he is a transexual. I am wanting him to go and do things that men do, as he has always wanted to do.

Would anyone mind if he came to the pool and was naked in the showers?- he has a clitoris outside his body and body hair

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Is he going for gender re-alignment surgery, does he feel like a woman trapped in a mans body? Does he have other sexual organs pertaining to a woman, or does he have scrotum etc? We can't answer your question honestly if you don't give us the information. You say he has a clitoris - which means he has a vagina or is perhaps an hermaphrodite. I seriously think he should consider seeing a surgeon about this condition. I'm surprised he hasn't sought help before now and before you asking on his behalf!

    Edit: The usual purile answer I would expect from "Dr Frank"

  • 1 decade ago

    I do not see why there would be a problem doing "things that men do", though I think he should be very wary of showers and any places that he would be seen naked.

    Many people would definitely be freaked out, because it is challenging their frame of reference, i.e. comfort zone. Essentially all that means is that they are narrow-minded or naïve, but it can lead to many unpleasant experiences for him regardless of how HE feels about it. Narrow-minded people can be cruel.

    More openminded people would also stare, I think, because it will certainly be something out of the ordinary, but their mindsets would allow them to accept him easily.

    Many men are shy about their penises anyway, so other men will NOT find it strange if he decides to use the stall instead of the crib for urinating, and if he decides to shower separately.

    If he really wants to experience the communal showering thing with other men, then best it be with men who know him well and with whom he has discussed his physical differences.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes that is fine. He has gone through enough anguish in life already if he has had to endure transexualism.

    To me it would look like a small penis.

    IF anyone gets 'freaked out' by this they have some issues of their own to attend to.

  • Bush43
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You are sick! You are not a man, you are a freaking nasty sicko! Get a girl friend and do it the way that God intended for it to be!

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  • 1 decade ago

    some people are little narrow minded to be honest, dont think that would go down very well it shouldnt be like that but people are.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    'He' sounds like a chick to me! I don't think that he'll ever achieve full intercourse with just a clitoris!

    Source(s): I have a clitoris and it's tiny weeny!
  • 1 decade ago

    if i was a guy and i saw a guy wiv a clit i would be a tad freaked but if hes open about his sexuality he wont care

  • 1 decade ago

    i wouldnt mind. i think its normal if he wanted to change the way he is.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yuk. Sorry, but that is too strange. Go all the way with a sex change and THEN get naked, not before.

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you both 12 or under?

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