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shes moving back?

my wife who left me a bout a year ago wants to move back to my house since my mother passed away. living with her is hell. and even if i say no, she insists cuz of our sole daughter who was living with her should recognize her father (me) . i think its a ploy to just having her to go back here. andf she claims she can't pay rent no more.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    if you are still married..... you have to ask yourself.... do you want her back.....

    if the answer is no..... then you have to file for divorce.... and not let her back in.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah, it's a ploy, but you do have a responsibility here. If she insists that she move back in tell her no. Tell her that the child can stay while the two of you get to know each other again. She won't agree to it, but it is worth a try.

  • Angel
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I can understand your reluctance to allow your wife move back in with you.

    Did you never go through the steps to get a divorce?

    With her living with you, this will enable you to see your daughter and know that she is being cared for..

    But you need to set boundaries with the mother of your child and if she up and wants to leave again, file for an emergency custody hearing to take the child..

    Best of Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    She left you, remember? If living with her was hell then, there is little indication it would be heaven now. She is looking for someone to pay the rent. You can still have a relationship with your daughter whether you live with her mother or not.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Divorce her and get joint custody, or sole custody since it sounds like she can't support her child. Don't let me move back in if you have these feelings about her.

  • 1 decade ago

    you need to tell her to work it out and to do what she has been doing for the year she was gone. still provide for your daughter but just tell her NO SHE CANT MOVE IN WITH YOU. she can move back in the area but just not in your house. dont fall for the okie doke. she is up to something. GodBless

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell her your daughter is welcomed to live there but she's not and it's an insult to you for her to even think you would allow her to.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, the only thing you can do it help her with her bills until she gets on her feet. Tell her that you don't won't her to move back because you can't tolerate her. Assure her that you will take care of your child and see what she says...

  • Marina
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If you don't want her there, don't allow her to move in with you. It really is that simple. Your daughter can come over and visit at any time----without her.

  • me m
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    its not your problem she only wants the house dont let her in,if she cany afford to house your daughter then just go to court and have the daughter live with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    She thought the grass was greener on the other side. I dont know, if your child has no where to go, how can you close your door to him/her?

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