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Mickey C asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

How should I ask this girl to prom?

I want to ask one of my friends to prom but I never get a chance to talk to her face to face because we have conflicting school schedules. So should I ask her through AIM/text messaging? Or try to call her? Or would it be best to try to find time to talk to her during school?

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  • Miss 6
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    I think face to face is best. Try calling her or texting her ask her to meet up with you after/before school. If she says she can't then ask her via phone or text. But like I said face to face is best.

    Oh yeah and tomorrow is Saturday so what's wrong with doing it tomorrow, no conflicting school schedule there.?

  • Rat
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Definitely do it in person, otherwise she may not accept.

    Even if you're not in any of her classes and don't see her in the halls, try to see her before or after school, or at some sort of extracurricular function.

    You've noted that you're friends, too, so I'd assume that you know where she lives. Maybe call her up and ask if you can come over (or if you live nearby, walk by when you know she'll be outside) and tell her then.

    EDIT: Regarding Dee's post, not every girl likes it big. A couple of friends I had in high school were asked in big ways, and it pissed them off because they felt pressured and thought that it was being wasteful. Don't go big, go *sincere*.

  • 1 decade ago

    Call her and ask her to meet you somewhere tomorrow, and bring flowers!!! If she's busy, you could ask her on the phone... I know I'd rather be asked in person, though. (: Weekends might be best for her, as there will be no conflicting school schedules. I think you should definitely ask in person!! Or you could leave a pretty note in her locker. I wouldn't want to be asked over IM since I might think it was a joke... but that's just me. (:

  • 1 decade ago

    You should gather your courage up and go talk to her. Don't text, don't write it on a note, it doesn't work. Just start a conversation that brings humor and sophistication, make sure it captures her attention, then simply ask her. Make sure you know her first because normally people don't like to be with people that don't know very much. If she says no then obviously she doesn't like you that much so then try to be a friend. She may change her mind one day if you are the likely candidate to her needs.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Direct method is best, but it seems that, these days, if you can do it with a little flair, it will make the best impression. Google "prom proposals" to see some stories on the great lengths some guys go to!

    Here's one: http://t3.pacific.edu/teams/B017606/promproposals2...

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    i think the best way to ask her to prom is do it big every girl likes it that way. so if you haev ever seen lugana beach or orange county or newport harbor, they asked her frind to take her shopping and while they were driving there her date was on the side of the rode with tons of flowers and signs that ask her to prom.. i suggest u do something big like that

    Source(s): me of course
  • 1 decade ago

    Go up to her and say

    " Me want u woman go prom"

  • 1 decade ago

    write it on her car! or drop a rose in her locker with a note asking her!

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