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My husband and I have been discussing typical sexual encounters for married couples. I was looking online for statistics or research but there isn't much real information. I know everyone is different but we both have had several partners in the past and way different sex lives. I have created some questions for married couples both male and female to see what's "typical". If you don't want to answer truthfully...please don't answer. I will include my answers so it doesn't seem creepy.

1. Male or female? - female
2. Age? - 30
3. Married for? - 7 years
4. Children and ages? - 1 (age 4)
5. Weekly encounters? - 3
6. Weekly oral to completion for you? - hit and miss
7. Weekly oral to completion for spouse? - 1 to 2
8. Situation? - Stay at home mom, white collar husband, son is very busy and way too smart, I am a type 1 diabetic with high blood pressure and on birth control, husband is 13 years older and very healthy. Scheduled encounters 3x week. I think that covers it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1. Female
2. 22
3. Married for 4 months...  been together 6 years, living together for 4  1/2  years
4. 3 yr old tyrant and one on the way
5. 2-5
6.  Haha I wish I got some
7. 1-3 times
8.  Stay at home mom/ part-time college student, he's currently pursuing his degree in Criminal Justice through an online college, 3 yr old son that thinks he's boss of everything... who we like to pon off on the grandparents (I LOVE GRANDPARENTS)  no health issues .. no birth control.. just typical pull out method... and I'm 10 months older than him.. and I think that's about it?

jcrussell1234 · Answer

1. Male or female? - female
2. Age? - 34
3. Married for? - 2 years
4. Children and ages? - 1 
5. Weekly encounters? - 5
6. Weekly oral to completion for you? - varies, more of foreplay
7. Weekly oral to completion for spouse? - varies, more of foreplay
8. Situation? -Both work full time professionals, always find the "time".  Have an amazing sex life.

Anonymous · Answer

1. Male
2. 51
3. Married 7+ years
5. 12+
6. oral to completion for me 4-5 times.  Almost every encounter for foreplay
7. oral to completion for her..10+ Almost every encounter
8. Stay at home mom wife, one teenage son still at home, one in university.  I have white collar job.  I am 10 years older.  No "scheduled encounters".  Almost every night, almost every morning, several afternoon delights a week.  I am type 2 diabetic.  I have had vasectomy.  

These are my truthful answers.  We are both very happy, though life isn't "perfect" we do not struggle financially but we don't have money to burn either.  But we really love and respect each other and I wouldn't trade that for more money.

I must travel frequently for work overseas, she always goes with (I cancel trip if she can not go for some reason) We have not slept apart one night since married.

? · Answer

Okay...seriously:
1. Female
2. 52
3. Together 8 years
4. Children: only 1 in home (teen)
5. Weekly Encounters: twice a MONTH
6. Week oral to completion for me?  Never
7.  Weekly oral to completion for him?  Never
8.  Situation:  He worked with his hands, Me Office Personnel.  Both healthy physically, financial security/ medical coverage came through me.  He was 2 years older.  He drank alot, and rarely showed me any form of intimacy unless someone was watching, then he appeared very romantic.

We divorced because I no longer wanted to be a married ~ single person.  I want passion, romance, a real gentleman,  laughter, hugging, and truth.

Cryz · Answer

1. Male or female? - female
2. Age? - 25
3. Married for? - 6 months
4. Children and ages? - 0
5. Weekly encounters? - 1 maybe
6. Weekly oral to completion for you? - negative
7. Weekly oral to completion for spouse? - weekly no monthly maybe
8. Situation? - Truck Driver Team, both together pretty much all the time, me puerto rican him 31 Irish

John Q Citizen · Answer

1. Male
2. Over 30
3. 17 years until she passed on.
4. A daughter and a son.
5. Twice.
6.  All that matters is the attempt.
7.  What follows is mutually satisfying.&#92;
8.  What is wrong?

kim h · Answer

Female.  40  Married 15 years. Three kids 17,14 and 11.  Weekly one or two because we work opposite shifts and that is all that time allows.  Once and the same for him usually. We both work, he works 5a to 5p Mon.-Fri and I work  6:30 p to 6:30a three days one week and four days the next. My plant is in the process of shutting down and consolidating to another facility so I have been working 6 or 7 days a week for months and months. We are all healthy.

whew · Answer

female
24
3 years
1 child
oral 3 times a day for him
2 for me oral
sex 2-3 times a day sometimes 1
Work full thime for both. HEalthy
Oh im a nurse he is a nuclear engineer
The reason why we do it so much is because we don't get to see each other everyday. He goes on business trips. We both in shape and try to go to the gym daily. He is black and i'm asain by the way ...

edit!@@
 This is interesting i so surprise that people don't have much oral sex!! I always thought everyone else get it on a daily bases too! Interesting

Anonymous · Answer

1:female
2:19
3:1
4:0
5:6
6:none
7:2
8:im a student beginning to study clinical psychology, husband is a graphics student. he is 3 years my senior. we dont schedule sex. i am not on birth control. we are ttc.

Anonymous · Answer

1. male
2. 46
3. 23yrs
4. 2- 20 and 15
5. rare
6. rare
7. rare
8. blue collar worker, wife employed full time. wife is overweight and snores severly. i'm same weight as when we married. sex life nonexistant

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