men,is it okay for your wife to have sex with a female,if you knew she bisexual prior to marriage?

...as long as he gets to play with your toy, too!

yNOT?

There could be a lot of reasons. If she is young, she is likely scared of what it will be like, will it hurt, etc. You didn't say how long you have known each other, but if it is only recently that you've met she likely isn't ready to have sex with a virtual stranger. Or she could have been the victim of sexual assault in the past, which makes it very difficult to have any sort of sexual relationship without having extensive counseling. You've waited this long to have sex, so waiting until she is ready won't be too hard. Give her some time and I'm sure she will come around. Take the pressure off her and let her know that you love her and will be there for her when she is ready. And remember not to take it personally. I think arranged marriages make it difficult to adjust to the marriage at first. I'm sure it isn't that she doesn't like you. And the best thing you can do is talk to her and try to get her to tell you honestly why she doesn't want to have sex. It might take some time and patience to get the answer out of her, but with patience and love you can find the reason and fix the problem.

You need to communicate & be honest with each other. Talk it through & consider each other's feelings. And most important; be clear about the rules & stay true to them.

Some couples can have an open relationship & some can't handle it. Be sure beforehand that everyone involved knows their role.

I was in a relationship with a woman & we said we had an open relationship; we had 3somes & 4somes, too. I chose guys & she chose girls. Eventually we went our separate ways; she still dates women & I haven't been with a woman in the 9+ years since. We were choosing our path even then. My point is that it can sometimes bring about the end of a good thing & you should be very sure you are ready for the consequences.

Not a chance! Fidelity doesn't have a special clause saying that as long as it's another person of the same sex. By your rules the guys can get together for a little romp if the mood strikes them. I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't think that was such a great plan.

Not okay unless like in your case, both spouses have no problem. If you're willing to let him have sex with whomever he wants, then you guys have your own little agreement and it's none of the outside world's beeswax no matter how much we may or may not disagree with it. However, if you feel it's okay for you, but you wouldn't want him to do it, that's not right at all. I will NOT live a different set of rules than my spouse.

How would you feel if they had sex outside of the marriage ?

Same answer for your query. Cheating is having sex outside

of the marriage, bisexuality isn't an excuse to cheat without

consequences, its just selfishness.

well each person is different but it dosen't matter if your wife sleeps with someone else as long as she comes home to t he one she loves the most. in addition if thats not yur thing you wont have to worry about it and thats the bottom line cause i said so.

Let me ask you a question. Would you mind if your husband had sex with another woman since you knew he was heterosexual when you married him? Faithfulness is faithfulness no matter what.

If the husbands are ok with it then it should be no problems. You have to let the husbands have some fun with other women too!

Yup

if you put a gun in you mouth and it doesn't go off were you lucky or just stupid