why cant i stop cheating on the one i love?

Yall both need to quit with the relationship games, and wait till your mature enough to handle it.. You love the attention thats why you do it..

You're doing this because on a subconcious level you want out. You love him but you don't love him any more. You're probably young and feel like this is not a guy who you can forsake all others for. Realize that having a kid is such a transporting experience for a female that your personality is not really set until after one to three children. After that, you are not really the same person you were when you courted your husband. I see this all the time. The female uteris wants one man, but her heart wants a different kind of man. The urge to procreate is primal and your glands fiercely fight to get that guy into your life so you can have his kid, but once you have given birth you realize that all the genetic tags that made you want him are for the survival of the species, not for your heart's desire. This is why there are so many divorces after kids, and why so many women are in happy marriages to men they meet after they turn 40 and their kids from their first marriages are teenagers.

You are doing this because you are still angry and hurt that he cheated on you. There were issues over that time that was never truly resolved. You either have to forgive him and move on in your relationship or let him go. Maybe you need to sit him down and talk with him about what your really feeling and maybe by now you feel that he should commit and marry you?

When i first saw ur title i want to get mad at u but after reading through i realize why u are that way and its not ur fault. Consiously u dont want to cheat but subconsiously u cant help it cuz ur bf cheated on u before and ur feeling unsecured thus the cheating thoughts u have. u have to face reality. did u really forgave him for the cheating before? u either have to make ur relationship work or leave him cuz ur in a situation where u cant be happy. dun go as low as he did, if u cant forgive, just leave ok. gd luck

He hurt you in the past,because of cheating,so you might feel the need to get even to feel better about what he done. This is what you do live in the present and not in the past,forgive him a move on.People change,if he's doing everything right now except that/ Love is forgivness.

Either you didn't forgive him completely for cheating on you and you're angry so you're thinking about doing it too so that it can even the score OR you want out but feel obligated to stay. If he's your "heart & world," then figure out what you're getting from the other guys (attentions?) that you're not getting at home and talk with your husband. If you're still angry and insecure about his cheating in the past, work it out, talk it out, pray it out...whatever you need to do to really forgive and move forward. If you want out, then get out without denegrating yourself.

U THRIVE on attention from others... sorry to say but it's the truth... 2 wrongs don't make a right and u forgave him for cheating obviously so u have no rights to cheat back.

U 2 don't have a relationship... I don't know what the hell u call what u got!!

If he was truly your world, you wouldn't be cheating on him. If you were truly his world, he wouldn't have played you. People who are happy in their relationships don't cheat on each other!

Maybe you don't love him as much as you think. Maybe you are looking for something better. It doesn't sound like he had much love or respect for you in the beginning.

cuz u r infected with the natural "i am a s l ut" virus?