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Mentally abused!! Help!?
I have been in a relationship for about 1 1/2 with a man that always says he cant tell that i love him. And i dont understand how. Im not even married to him and i cook for him, do his laundry, iron his clothes, clean, try to give him what he wants sexually, care for his kids when there here, i tel him i love him everyday and kiss and hug him, but nothing ever seems to be good enough. He gets mad over the littlest things, for example... I havent seen my grandparents in 9mnths and they just drove in from OH to see me so i spent saturday all day with them riding horses and eating dinner and came home at about 10:30 at night and he was mad because i didnt come home to make him and his kids dinner. I was 1 1/2 away visiting with them. Please help me with what i should do.
He says that i dont show him i love him by doing things like standing by him....because i hae a duty to be the woman of the house and cook for him and i didnt come home to do that for him. I just feel like im going crazy
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He's doens't appreciate you and is completely taking you for granted if you do all that and that still isn't enough then he is abusing you emotionally leave the relationship if you want to kept your emotional well being. It doesn't matter how much you love if he will never give you what you need. He only will take take take It's not your responsibility to feed his kids if your not married.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think he needs to get a grip on what is causing him to be so insecure...and I think you two need to have a heart to heart about the fact that just because you went to see your granparents who you havent seen in almost a year that doesnt mean you don't love him. You need to ask him to tell you honestly why he thinks you dont love him. If he says it is because you don't do enough around the house for him and the kids you need to tell him that is a scape goat for not telling you what is really going on. He may have low self esteem about himself...which has nothing to do with you or how much you do for him no matter what it is. It has to do with his own self love and if he cant learn to love himself then he needs to get some counciling.
- 1 decade ago
get rid of him now! some men have to be in power. if he is a veteran and has a history of ptsd. there is meds for that, we all flare up sometime,beleive me i know i have been married to one for 25 years. even now after my husband has come to reality i cannot stand his actions now even a divorce is coming . do it now you need the respect always. no one needs to be ruled . you will be so much happier. save your life
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Get out of the relationship. He is taking you for granted and demolishing your self esteem. He sounds unstable, and he needs counselling....control freak. I am serious, he is not worth your mental health.
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- poker_fan_in_nycLv 51 decade ago
Wow this sounded like a joke...and the scary thing is I believe you...so you better get out of this relationship AND FAST...
just curious what are your ages?
- Alans BabygirlLv 41 decade ago
hes overly controlling. telll him hes a grown *** man and he knows how to cook so he should of done it himself.
tell him to quit being such a ***** and do **** on his own for a change.
and if he can't see you love him than leave him cause its never gonna change.
