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Cat
Lv 6
Cat asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Friend/relationship problems-need male insight?

I've been best friends with this guy for 2 years. Somewhere along the way I fell in love with him. He's in a bad relationship, and says he "has feelings for me" but can't do anything because he's in a relationship. When we're alone he's one way - in public another. We do have a physical relationship, which has gone from once in a while to once a week. I've tried to point out that we're more than just friends, but he says that I'm pushing him - that I'm too needy - and I have no claim on him. To complicate things, he's spending more and more time with a guy friend (I know he's not gay), and says I'm jealous if I object to him breaking our limited time together to hang out with this dude. Yet when we're together he still acts as if we're a couple and everything's fine. I'm totally confused. Can someone shed some light on this?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    get over it. you are in love not him.... what you are thinking thats not a matter to him... stop seeing him for a month or two. then you will see whats the result..

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    This occurred to a pal of mine. He did tell me it changed into certainly a psychological difficulty for him. He keen to "hump" the mattress. It felt quite good to him. from time to time he used the gap between 2 mattress pillows. He continually got here that way. He also discovered that trimming each and each and every of the hair (no longer too close!) made all of it softer and in no way in the way. try a lube and in case you do not opt to scale back to rubble your sheets, purchase a really gentle shammy form difficulty which will sense very gentle (like interior a lady) and do not forget to apply your mind's eye!! take excitement in!!

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him you need to talk to him and understand what he is thinking, you both must be aware of what both of you want, no one can get inside his head but him, so talk to him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i like it very much

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