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I just found out my bf's character is doing sexy scenes with another woman's character in a text-only online game. He says it's just a character and she's an old friend, but it feels like cheating to me. Am I overreacting?

I just found out my bf has a character doing explicit sexy scenes with another woman's character on line. He says it's just a character, and she's an old friend, but it feels like cheating to me. (I'm a roleplayer, too, by the way.) Am I overreacting?

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I've been best friends with this guy for 2 years. Somewhere along the way I fell in love with him. He's in a bad relationship, and says he "has feelings for me" but can't do anything because he's in a relationship. When we're alone he's one way - in public another. We do have a physical relationship, which has gone from once in a while to once a week. I've tried to point out that we're more than just friends, but he says that I'm pushing him - that I'm too needy - and I have no claim on him. To complicate things, he's spending more and more time with a guy friend (I know he's not gay), and says I'm jealous if I object to him breaking our limited time together to hang out with this dude. Yet when we're together he still acts as if we're a couple and everything's fine. I'm totally confused. Can someone shed some light on this?

I have a friend who has channeled an entity for years. Sometimes he lets the entity run around in his body for hours. He's still aware of what's going on if he wants to be, and can come back in at any time. The entity seems to be good, and I've never caught it in a lie. In fact, it makes a lot of sense and is quite personable.

How common is this? Is it safe (relatively speaking)? Is there anyone out there with a similar experience? Any information I can find seems to be about short sessions - not about the entity sticking around a while. Can anyone help me with the basics?

I'm in love with a guy who says he loves someone else and has made a commitment to her. Yet he treats her like dirt and treats me like royalty. He helps me with my home projects, but won't turn a hand at home. He goes out of his way to call and talk with me, but ignores her. He says he's attracted to me, and has feelings for me, but "mostly as friends". And yes, the sexual chemistry between us is definitely there, though he won't act on it. He tells me it's better to be his friend, and thinks this is normal. I think he's got things backwards.

I am confused. Can you shed any light on this?

He's in my care for the next 3 weeks. His skin is bright pink in many places, and he has large 2-inch sores. He scratches and bites at himself - it can't be comfortable. Hair is cut very short. How can I get him relief and find out what he's allergic to?